I want to hide under a rock!

posted 3 years ago in Family
Post # 3
Member
2665 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Honey, she is like a cancer and needs to be cut out.  You said at least 4 times on your op that She is toxic and you don’t want her in your life.  Follow through. 

Don’t negotiate with emotional terrorists. 

I think your holding out and giving her all these chances and help because of the mother you WANT her to be And not the mother she IS.  Saying if I do just this one thing more we can be happy and she will change .  I understand this, but you have done all you can do.  You need to set boundaries. And then stick to them. 

Post # 4
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2179 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2024

She is toxic. Just don’t text her back, don’t tell her when it is and if you have an iphone with iOS7…BLOCK HER NUMBER and delete her from your Facebook.

You have sent her so much money and she gives you nothing but grief. Set your boundaries and stick to them! She shouldn’t expect you to be her personal bank.

 

Post # 5
Member
1793 posts
Buzzing bee

I think you need to tell her not to come.  She can’t be around you and she doesn’t speak English, so what is she supposed to do in a land where she can’t understand anyone?  Tell her to stay in Poland.  She is toxic and it is time to cut the ties.  I do remember your other posts about her.  I am so sorry.

Post # 7
Member
1864 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Lulume:  Just read your post for the first time and I see that your wedding date has passed. If you don’t mind me asking, how did it go? Did she end up coming?

Post # 9
Member
1864 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

@Lulume:  That’s great to hear! Love happy updates! 🙂

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