(Closed) I Want To Rip Her Face Off And Feed It To My Dogs!!!! VENT

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1297 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

That’s horrible.  Why don’t you guys  block this girls #?

Post # 5
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

That sucks, but don’t bother getting upset, she doesn’t sound like she’s worth it. She wants a reaction. (Though if she keeps it up, you may consider pressing harassment charges against her!)

Remember: YOU got the guy, and SHE sounds like a pathetic psychotic mess.

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

wow.  that’s pretty stalker-ish! 

If you want to go beyond blocking, you could try talking to the local police to see what can be done.  probably nothing, but if she’s harassing you or him, you might be able to get somewhere.

so, so sorry you have to deal with that!!!

Post # 8
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5823 posts
Bee Keeper

Next time she texts him he should just text her back something really mean.  Who would want a guy who says mean things about them?  Something really personal about her that he would know like:

“See I knew you had mental issues when we were dating that’s why I’m so glad I don’t have to deal with you anymore”  or something like that.

What does your FI say when she does this?  Is he encouraging her at all?

Post # 9
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7976 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

yeah, I sense a restraining order….. ick. Sorry you’re dealing with this girl!

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Ugh that sucks!  What a whackadoodle…..what does your FI say about the whole thing?  Ick she sounds like just a nasty peice of poo.

Post # 11
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

I just PM-ed you- I suggested a restraining order.  It is going way too far.

Post # 13
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5148 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I’m agreeing with the restraining order… and sue her for harassment!

Post # 14
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

And another thing, you DEFINATELY don’t want her deciding to try something stupid at your wedding! (Another reason a restraining order is a good idea.)

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL! My FI’s ex is NUTS! she  used to do  alot of the stuff that your crazy does. It was so bad that my FI had to change is phone number and all his passwords, and close accounts to certain things. she hacked into his facebook and started sending me messages pretending to be him!  She also copied  pictures of  myself  from my facebook,( i have everything set to private)  and create a fake myspace account  pretending to be me. She had it for months before I kenw about it.   It was crazy and stressful.   It was getting so bad that my fi was going to put a restraining order on her.

Good Luck with yours! I really do feel for ya.

Post # 16
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Newbee
  • Wedding: December 2012

You really really need to speak to the police.  Doubtful they’ll be able to act on anything that’s currently happened, but it will be useful to file complaints over everything this fruitcake does – stalking charges are much easier to press if there’s an official record of the crap she’s pulled.  I would also recommend you keeping a diary of all her texts/emails/calls etc and reporting it once a week.  You will end up with a detective being assigned to your case who will deal with everything – i repeat, the police won’t be able to do much now, but if something escalates, a history of issues will be hugely important when it comes to making a case against her.

I would recommend getting entirely new phone no’s – landline and cell but keeping the old ones active where possible, and keeping whatever voicemails she leaves,ditto the texts and emails.

I’ve lived through having a stalker, it ain’t funny, but the law got ’em.  You just need to do most of the work yourself, amassing the eveidence, to give the law enough info to deal with it.

You have my sincerest sympathies, this broad sounds like a total nutter, any advice i can give please message me.

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