Post # 1
So I am curious who ever is doing or has done a rehearsal dinner/rehearsal, did you only have the people that are in the wedding show up and at the dinner only or were there tag alongs as well. Did you make note to the people that are suppose to be there no tag alongs or did you allow it?
All bees!!! Please tell your opinions if you are married already as well as if you are in planning mode like me 🙂 Thank you ladies!
Post # 3
So, I replied with something and realized that I totally read it wrong… so… I’m interested to see what others say 🙂
Post # 4
We are inviting bridal party and their significant others, but not random dates. For example, several of the groomsmen are married or in LTR’s, so their SO’s are invited. My BM who’s bringing a date to the wedding but is not really with him (and they’re both local) is not invited to bring him to the RD. I’m just telling her that I don’t think he’d be comfortable coming- he’s not her boyfriend, they’re not dating, he’s just a friend she’s bringing to the wedding who isn’t close to me (wouldn’t have gotten a wedding invite on his own, though I do know him) and doesn’t know FI.
Post # 5
We asked anyone who was in the bridal party and their +1’s and children, a couple family members who were visiting from out of town, our immediate family and my DOC. Everyone else wasn’t told, and there were no issues!
Post # 6
We invited the Bridal Party + their SOs.
Post # 7
We are inviting Bridal Party and SO’s (i.e. long term gf/bf, living together, engaged, married, etc), but not random guests.
My FI is going to a rehearsal dinner tomorrow where I am not invited, despite that we’re engaged and living together AND we’ve all hung out together, etc. I am completely ticked off and think it’s so rude and tacky. They made my FI spend $250 on a tux rental, and they couldn’t spare an extra dinner plate at the rehearsal? Apparently no other person in the Bridal Party has SO’s, so too bad so sad for me.
Post # 8
We invited the BP and dates plus immediate family and dates.
Post # 9
Bridal party and SOs, immediate family, and our officiant and his spouse.
Post # 10
We also had the bridal party and their SO’s.