(Closed) I went to a wedding yesterday.

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
3801 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Did you guys ever talk about it?

Sometimes men have mental milestones in their minds that they want to reach before getting engaged and having a wedding, such as having a career in order, buying a house, being able to afford paying for a wedding, etc.

You’ll know when the right time is, or when the right time to start talking about it is. Since you went to a wedding this past weekend, maybe it’s a good time to talk about it soon? If you said in front of your SO that you feel like you are already married, maybe your SO never talks about it because he really thinks that you don’t want to or feel the need to. Men are pretty literal – if you say things like that, they will believe it, and not pick up on your other hints.

Post # 4
8 posts
  • Wedding: September 2011


I can relate to how you feel exactly. I am engaged now, but for about a 4-6 month period prior, I found myself feeling almost resentful toward other people’s wedding-related activities. The best advice I can give you is to try to not be like this and to focus on other things. It took its toll on me emotionally. I realize this is easier said than done. 🙁

Post # 5
1566 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Do you guys ever talk about a timeline?? It sucks that he dose not think any time soon would be a good time 🙁 

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