(Closed) I wish men knew how hard waiting is.. grr

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

That’s a good sign! ๐Ÿ™‚ Emotional times brought out comments from Fiance very similar to that. I did the same thing you did – tried to change the subject. Keep it up Ren!!

Post # 4
438 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

ooo! Good job playing it cool!

Post # 5
1066 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Oh thats so funny, looks like the plan is working!!!  That’s SO something I would do!  You did awesome, I know how hard it is!  LOL


Post # 6
665 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Props to you!

It would be nice if they could understand better.

Post # 7
3281 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Men torture us because they can and they think its fun lol

Post # 8
1106 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@HoneyBear… So true. 

I agree that this is a good sign!! How exciting!!

Keep us posted and let us know when he finally asks you!! I’ll send out the vibes ;]


Post # 10
2765 posts
Sugar bee

Actually, when a guy brings up the wedding… it’s totally ok to talk to him about it!  You don’t have to change the subject… it’s ok to enjoy the conversation!  He will find it reassuring that you are into the idea. ๐Ÿ™‚

The Plan is more aimed at when you’re tempted to bring up the subject yourself…  at moments in time when you know in your gut that it’s not necessarily appropriate but can’t help yourself.

I’m proud of you though, for standing strong!!  Keep us posted! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 11
1111 posts
Bumble bee

A certain meanie I know was like “oh hey they are talking about long and short engagements on the radio, let’s listen to it!” and then after he got annoyed with the DJs and callers, he turned it off and was like “marriage is overrated”.

Me, to myself:  Nice to know, Mr. I-want-a-choreographed-dance-routine

Post # 13
603 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

omg what a TEASE!!! good job changing the subject that must have been rough!

Post # 14
49 posts
  • Wedding: May 2010

I don’t think they get it one bit!  But, great job responding to his comments and then changing the subject.  Maybe he’s got wedding/marriage on his brain more than you think! ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 16
18645 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I know it’s hard but it is great when he brings it up and you don’t have to completely avoid it then!  The fact that he is talking about it means that he is thinking about doing it!

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