Post # 1
As Im sure a lot of you other waiting ladies are doing.. I have been trying to impliment Mr. Bee’s plan and advert the wedding talk as of late with the SO. Well this afternoon after he was at a funeral this morning for his best friends father in law who just passed earlier this week.. I get the following text:
Mr. Tee: “Is it weird I keep thinking about what our wedding day is going to be like?”( Ok seriously this is random???? )
My response: “I dont think so.. why?” (Trying to play is cool..)
Mr. Tee: “I keep thinking about how wonderful it will be.. and getting to dance with you” (Ok Mr. Tee, then ASK ALREADY LOL)
Me: “It will be a good time thats for sure.. so what are you up to” (Change the subject Ren.. )
Mr. Tee: “And how beautiful your going to look” (ARE YOU TRYING TO MAKE ME CRACK HERE???)
Me: “Aww thank you baby.. Im sure you’ll look very handsome too. So have you eaten anything yet?” (I’m really trying here.. )
Mr. Tee: “We are heading there now” (WOOOO Crisis adverted!!!)
Why oh Why do men torture us???
Post # 3
That’s a good sign! 🙂 Emotional times brought out comments from Fiance very similar to that. I did the same thing you did – tried to change the subject. Keep it up Ren!!
Post # 4
ooo! Good job playing it cool!
Post # 5
Oh thats so funny, looks like the plan is working!!! That’s SO something I would do! You did awesome, I know how hard it is! LOL
Post # 6
Props to you!
It would be nice if they could understand better.
Post # 7
Men torture us because they can and they think its fun lol
Post # 8
@HoneyBear… So true.
I agree that this is a good sign!! How exciting!!
Keep us posted and let us know when he finally asks you!! I’ll send out the vibes ;]
Post # 9
Thanks!! I could sure use them!
Post # 10
Actually, when a guy brings up the wedding… it’s totally ok to talk to him about it! You don’t have to change the subject… it’s ok to enjoy the conversation! He will find it reassuring that you are into the idea. 🙂
The Plan is more aimed at when you’re tempted to bring up the subject yourself… at moments in time when you know in your gut that it’s not necessarily appropriate but can’t help yourself.
I’m proud of you though, for standing strong!! Keep us posted! 🙂
Post # 11
A certain meanie I know was like “oh hey they are talking about long and short engagements on the radio, let’s listen to it!” and then after he got annoyed with the DJs and callers, he turned it off and was like “marriage is overrated”.
Me, to myself: Nice to know, Mr. I-want-a-choreographed-dance-routine
Post # 12
Lol.. They just dont understand!
Post # 13
omg what a TEASE!!! good job changing the subject that must have been rough!
Post # 14
I don’t think they get it one bit! But, great job responding to his comments and then changing the subject. Maybe he’s got wedding/marriage on his brain more than you think! 🙂
Post # 15
Miss Beans.. I know he thinks about it alot.. he talks about it constantly. I was having a really rough night this past week, missing my friends and him.. and he said “Baby we will be together for good very soon”. He knows I wont live with him until we are married since that means relocation for one of us. I said “I know.. I just have to remember that we have only been dating for 10 months.. some people do LD for years..” and he said “Trust me.. it wont be years. I am getting very impatent already”..
Personally I am a BILLION times more impatient them him.. but Im not going to let him know that! hehe
Post # 16
I know it’s hard but it is great when he brings it up and you don’t have to completely avoid it then! The fact that he is talking about it means that he is thinking about doing it!