I wish we could TTC like "normal".

posted 3 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

I know how you feel! I won’t even go into all of the details and planning it takes for FI and I TTC. Try it when you have two women and no male! 

Post # 4
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7275 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2013

I’m sorry for all of the difficulties you’re facing. You’re a brave woman, and I wish you nothing but good luck and baby dust!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I might be going against the grain here but I think it might be a good time to look at this. 

 
You said you haven’t been Intimate in weeks (and yes I have followed your story) your husbands overcome amazing odds. I don’t see how adding the pressure of TTC is good? Especially since he doesn’t even know if he can ejaculate at this point in time. You guys have Faced more In Your marriage than most of us will ever know. TTC is a very stressful & hard time on any couple / especially men with the expectation that they must do the ‘deed’ when the time is right. 
 
Obviously you guys know what’s best for you. & seeing other gets what you want is always hard. It just concerns me to see you frustrated at him about it when you admit you haven’t been intimate in weeks and he’s still struggling to find the right antidepressant. 

 
I really dont mean to sound like a downer or pessimistic I truly do not. & I wish you guys nothing but the. Best of luck in whatever path you and your husband are headed down. It’s just a different point of view I have. 

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I really feel for you and your rant is completely understandable. You are such a strong woman and I can’t imagine going thru what you and your family have endured. I am keeping you in my thoughts. I hope that you are able to have the baby (or babies) of your dreams!

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

Stay strong, I know it will happen eventually for you. One step at a time…

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