Post # 1
Been with my man for just over a year. He left for war on our 1 year anniversary. We have been living together for about 5 months. But he is will obviously be away for some time now. He will return later this year but he has been asking me to write letters to him about what I want in the future ( he already knows I want to get married and have kids) – so I was wondering in your oppinion do you think he is sizing me up for a proposal??? I hope so 😉
Post # 3
Not sure. I think this time apart could definitely solidify his plans if he feels your support and love for him while he is away.
Post # 4
I’m not sure either. I agree with Rush1986 that the time apart could help him do some thinking. // Some guys can go on and on about marriage and kids but never come to the conclusion that they should propose or take the next step. You’ll have to keep an eye out for more signs!
Post # 5
I agree with PP’s. He could be sizing you up, but he also could just need the love, support, and knowledge that he’s coming home to something amazing.
Post # 6
Yes I agree with all of you. There would be quite alot going through his head at the moment. To be honest the problem that I face is more how I should respond to his request… I’m not sure how to say I would like to get married and have kids in the future without sounding like I’m nagging- obviously that is not what he needs right now- with that said I don’t want to be dishonest about what I want ie pretending that I don’t care about marrige.