- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2012
Well Hive for those of you who followed my saga . . .
We finally have a court date for Monday and hopefully my FI divorce will be absolutely final. The most important thing to come out of this is that when she does not allow him access to his children as per the parenting plan we can file charges that she is in contempt of court. His almost 3 year saga of almost no access to his children will have legal weight behind it. Please note she asked for a divorce after he received a corporate relocation in 2008 and refused to move. He did not walk out on her he did not abandon her and she has made the process very difficult. Anyways enough venting on that . . .
There is another happy that will come out of the final divorce. We can be absolutely sure that the wedding will take place in August and all of our beautiful plans will come together on an April day surrounded by our friends and family that love and support us. And who know the whole story.
So back when we were sure this was going to be over in August (never ever ever believe your lawyer) and the hotel was telling me that I had to have rooms booked for the Oct wedding by July I sent out Save the Dates in emails.
So we let everyone know we would have to move the date and lots of people are asking for the new date but we have not let people know just in case something goes awry on Monday.
But glass half full it may not
So I need to send out new STD to our guests because many of them are from out of town
1. just cross out the date in a cute way above and put the new date on
2. Make a new STD with a cute reference that it is absolutely for sure this time
3. Make a new STD with no mention of the past date because time to start fresh and no reminders of the past