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    December    December 12, 2008   Minneapolis,MN/Jackson,MS

    So, we now know who the LDS brides are... how do the rest of the frequenters of the Christian bride board describe themselves? What's your denomination? (I'm not asking to divide people, just curious). How is your faith coming into play in your wedding?

    I'm an old-fashioned Presbyterian, which is actually more fun that people think it is. My fiance is a Presbyterian as well, and as his dad is (among other things) a pastor, we're having him perform the ceremony, and we're singing lots of the old-fashioned hymns that we still love. I've never gotten into praise choruses, sorry. :)

     
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    melodicsighs1    May 22, 2010   San Diego

    i am a Christian from a non-denominational church. i grew up in a Christian church which is a sister/break-off from the Church of Christ (but we had instruments and stuff)

    i grew up in the church, went to a christian high school, but have really gotten closer to the Lord and formed my identity as a Christian separate from my family since my senior year of high school and throughout college. 

    i am currently on the leadership team for the college group at my church, and love it!

    implementing our walk with God into our wedding ceremony is very important to FI and i and we strive to follow His will in every decision we make. however, i do not want to follow any traditional christian ceremony format or even necessarily be married within a church - we want to personalize every aspect of the wedding and make our own - and of course, God is at the center of our lives, so He will be at the center of our personalized ceremony. :) 

     
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    kaymarie       Detroit, MI

    i go to a baptist church, however we don't necessarily id ourselves as baptists... just christians! we love our church so there is no reason for us to say anything negative!

     our faith impacts us every single day. i suppose in some way if we do eventually get married (i hope so!) that it will be incorporated (in music choice, having no alcohol, modesty of dress, etc.) but i doubt we'll even notice!

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    cannotwait    February 1, 2009   TX

    We were both raised Methoidest and plan to have some hymns & communion.  My BIL is a pastor, so he will probably perform the ceremony.  My dad is a retired local pastor, and my sister is a children & youth minister.  (Altho, I was baptised Presbyterian, but Methodist seemed to stick with us when we switched after a move in 1st grade for me.)

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    LatteLove    June 19, 2009   Chicago/San Diego

    I am Orthodox Presbyterian and my fiance is United Reformed (almost the exact same!).  We attended the same Prebyterian church at school that I am now a member of and where we are getting married.

    We have a Scottish pastor officiating and are planning on old hymns as well!

     
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    squashcakes    9-26-09   ND

    I am Lutheran and my fiance is Catholic.  We are having a Lutheran wedding and we both attend Lutheran church.

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    mdarrah    4/4/09   Los Angeles, CA

    I'm an Episcopalian, and we'll be getting married by our priest while standing on a beach!  Very generic (and humorous) description of my church is that we are Catholic-lite: All the service, none of the guilt!  The services are very similar, but the teachings behind them are VERY different. We are among the more liberally minded in teachings.

     
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    mlindsey    3/15/08   Los Angeles

    We're members of and were married in a Baptist church although I don't consider myself Baptist. I was raised A.M.E. (African-Methodist Episcopal) which is a branch of the Methodist church but I just identify most with being Christian.  We were married by our Pastor, had scripture readings during our ceremony (one from the perspective of how a wife should be, the other from what a husband should be according to the Word). We also made time during the ceremony for the Pastor to pray over us, and for us to say our first prayer together as a married couple (just between us). We also had some gospel and high praise songs mixed in with some of the secular selections during the ceremony (appropriate of course!) and most important - our Pastor was our marriage counselor and it has been one of the greatest investments we made in our marriage so far. 

     
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    nowiknow    06.27.2009   Fort Worth, TX

    Our church is classified as being Baptist on some list somewhere or another on the internet that my grandmother found, but I didn't know that until she told us.  I'd say that our chirch is more non-denominational thatn anything else- we're very, very laid back & it's utterly fabulous.  I've been a part of the really strict Baptist churches & that's just not for me :)

     
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    samiam4eva06    August 21, 2009   Antioch, Ca

    I'm Pentecostal Holiness church. My dad is the new pastor of there.. for me it's not so much about denonimation as it is relationships.. as long as you have a personal relationship with Jesus Christ.. it's all good! Some things we're incorporating are the union candle, my dad will most likely do the service, prayer time before meal and during the ceremony. I'm really traditional but can't think of a whole lot of traditions to incorporate (if you think of more email me *samiam4eva02@gmail.com or pm me*). I will prob wear a jacket or lace thing on top during the ceremony and take it off for reception.. but only because i love the jackets! lol. and of course it'll be alcohol free. my fiance is a new christian so he's having a little bit of trouble with the no-alcohol thing ! :)

     
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    caramel    October 6, 2010   New York, NY

    I was raised in many different tiny churches and denominations didn't mean much to me until I met my husband. So I guess you can say we fall under the PCA church--- or Presbyterian. We're still kind of looking for a church out in New York, so if anyone knows any good recommendations, please let me know! (We like Redeemer Church but it's SO HUGE! A smaller church would be nice!)

    For our wedding, both Mr. Caramel and I told our pastor "we don't even care if you don't talk about us... we just want all our friends and family hear you teach the true gospel."  There are some people who've probably never set foot in a church, and if our wedding was going to be the only time, then we wanted them to hear the gospel preached correctly. We highly respected our pastor, so he gave a very powerful, Christ centered sermon that I absolutely loved. Of course, some people thought it was boring because he didn't make some witty, funny joke about us as the couple-- but we didn't care. It was God's day, not ours. We wanted the focus to be on Him because His kingdom is forever and we're not.

     
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    LatteLove    June 19, 2009   Chicago/San Diego

    Caramel, great post.  We are on the same page then :)

    we are asking out pastor the same thing.  Preach the gospel!  Since marriage was created as a reflection of the relationship between Christ and His church, we want our guests to walk away knowing the true meaning and intent of marriage.

     
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    joyce    June 6, 2009  

    Caramel - Wow that's awesome! I wouldn't be surprised if many guests never go to church or have the chance to hear the gospel so it's fantastic that you utilized your big day to spread the word. :)

     
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    MandaRae23    April 3 2009   Duluth, Minnesota

    Caramel~ I love how you wanted your pastor to just preach the gospel and that you did not care that he did not even talk about the two of you. Way to give glory to God! He brought the two of you together so praise to Him and to how you both want to show Him to all your guests!

     

    We went to Mount of Olives Baptist Church for awhile, but I didn't consider myselt a baptist nor does my fiance. We call ourselves CHRISTians. We try to be ambassadors for him in our everday living and not just on Wednesdays or Sundays. We are actually part of a church plant which will be called The Water's Edge Christian Church. We are both very excited about all that Jesus has done for us and all the blessings He continues to give us!!

     
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    paigee    June 27, 2009   Louisiana

    Caramel, Great way to phrase everything!

    FI and I are Baptist.  Our faith is very important to us, and it is definitely something that is part of our every day lives...FI is a youth minister.  We are hoping to shape our wedding ceremony into a worship service...not just a legal ceremony. As Latte said, marriage is a reflection of the way that Christ loves the church; we want that to be reflected and emphasized. 

     
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    bunny    July 3, 2009  

    My FI was raised Baptist, and I'm thoroughly non-denominational. Currently we're attending a Christian and Missionary Alliance Church.

     
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    powderpuff    July 11, 2009   Chicago

    Mr. PP and I are both non-denominational, and we're having an amazing pastor from my family's church marry us. I would like the ceremony to be as much about praising God as it is about us getting married, and I know that Pastor Dave will be able to do that 100%.

    We're having a call to worship at the beginning of the ceremony, before I walk down the aisle with a couple of my favorite worship songs- Everything Glorious and In Christ Alone. I think that will set the tone for the ceremony and help everyone to get into a worshipful mood. :)

    I love hearing all of your stories!

     
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    Oh, so glad I found this thread!  Mr. L and I are both Christians and go to ECC churches.  Like Caramel, our wedding may be the first time some of our guests have ever been in a church...or the first time in a very long time.  I think many of them have misconceptions about religion and church, and I'm hoping that our wedding will give them a glimpse into what our faith (and marriage) is really about. 

    I'm excited that my pastor will be officiating...he has such a relate-able and real preaching style and I think it'll be great for our guests to see a young and "hip" pastor marrying us.

     
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    meeshelles    September 5, 2009   San Francisco

    Our faith in the Lord and our commitment to serving the Lord is what brought my fiance and I together. We attended the same youth group and church for the last 13 years and knew, before we even started dating, that we wanted to get married. We didn't want to date, and we also didn't want a long courtship! However, after speaking with my parents, we decided to wait THREE YEARS before getting married, so I could graduate from architecture school and be a "good" wife, meaning I would not spend my nights at school building models!

    We are finally only 8 months away now, and I must say the last 2.5 years have been trying, refining, and challenging, but they have also been quite wonderful!

    Our only church, and our only Pastor, will be officiating, as he and his wife have mentored and discipled us for many years. We will not be having any "service" or anything of the sort: this is a celebration! Church will be on Sunday! But serving, acknowledging and glorifying God is a part of our every day lives, and is evident in the character we have developed and the love we are able to share with everyone we encounter.

    We look forward to the fellowship, and the mingling of our church families, friends, and family members, and of course making our life-long commitment to help, refine and uplift one another!! This is an exciting time for our church family as well, and as we attend a very small church, we have quite a bit of accountability and a lot of loving people that want nothing more than for us to have a wonderful marriage.

    We are so very blessed! I am continually in awe of God's love and provision for me. Trust me, this union is ALL His doing!!!

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    Thanks to everyone who shared; it is so nice to see a group of believers coming together in the WeddingBee community!

    We attend El Shaddai Ministries in California, and I describe myself as a Jesus-following Bible-believer. It's that simple. It needs to be! My fiance is a great inspiration to me in love, faithfulness, long-suffering and commitment, and we continue to challenge each other to be our very best. It gets intense, but it is the best way!

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    salex19    10-12-08   Washington, DC

    I was raised Presbyterian and my DH Catholic.  Before getting married we were confirmed in the Episcopal Church.  We had an outdoor ceremony performed by a female priest from our church.  The service was from the Book of Common Prayer.  I would have married my hubby no matter what, but it was nice that we have formed a common spiritual life that is fulfilling for us both.

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    desiredfocus    May 26, 02   Everywhere!

    I love God with all my heart, soul, mind and strength and I pray that I can help as many people as possible come to know Him before He returns!

    My husband I met while he was a missionary and I was going to college after I had finished a few years of mission school and missions in several countries.

    Our Wedding was so awesome because we worshipped God from our hearts, we cried and all our family and friends there to hear the gospel! 

    We really enjoyed ourselves and we still are serving the Lord and loving each other after 6.5 years! 

    I pray everyone has found their soul mate and will fulfill their calling together.

    Here's a self-portrait I took on our 6th year Anniversary!

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    susanY    July 18th 2009   Indonesia

    @desiredfocus, we're similar. I met my fiance at our missionary school, we're now serving the Lord. Our wedding will be held this July. His family is a non-believer and we're planning to preach the Gospel in the ceremony. We're still discussing with the church elders about the ceremony. Do you have any tips for me ?

     
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    yellowrose    10/3/09   Dallas

    we're methodists... the funnest kind of WASP! ha ha ha. One of the things that made me melt when we started dating was when my fiance asked if he could go to church with me.

     
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    jennifera    May 9, 2009   Florida

    I'm Episcopalian and have been my whole life.  My fiance is Methodist.  We have been attending my church together, and are getting married there as well.  Our ceremony will also be from the Book of Common Prayer, which I love because I've been opening that same book to page 355 on Sundays for as long as I can remember!  I like the tradition and familiarity.

    However, I'm not sure what church we'll attend after we're married.  FH says the organ music makes him nervous ;)

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    emilygrace    10th of April 2010   Brisbane, Australia

    I have been ina few different churches all me life. Right now, my Fiance and I are in Apostolic and Pentecostal churches, respectively, but we dont 100% agree with what they say. We might look for a new church after we're married.

     
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    Mrs. Caramel, it's so cool how you wanted to preach the gospel instead of focusing on you.

    We are Presbyterian and believe that marriage is the ultimate example of Christ's love. I feel so blessed and lucky to have found a best friend who believes the same thing I do! =)

     
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    Miss. Coca Cola    10/31/2009   LaGrange, GA

    My FI and I are both Southern Baptists, him more so than myself.  He was raised in a tiny church and attended there is whole life. [That's where I met him]

    After about a year, and after a big falling out at the church regarding our youth pastor, he and I (after much debate) decided to move our membership elsewhere.  We still attend a Southern Baptist church, but I think he sometimes misses the church where he grew up at.  His father is now the youth pastor there and his mother teaches childrens church.

    This poses a slight problem. Due to our very tight budget, we are having the reception in the fellowship hall at his parents church.  I am still not comfortable there, but I know it means alot to my FI since he was pretty much raised there.

    Thoughts?

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    cherylanna    october 10th 2009   louisville ky

    i'm non-denominational. i grew up in the church of god. my father is a minster as so i thin just about everyone in my family! we all work in the church and are very into music and have been singing or had an instrument in our hands almost since birth lol.

    my fiance and i attend a christian church. we've been through thick and thin and have been together for 10 years. we met very young and had a child together. since then we've had some rough patches but god has healed our hearts and brought us back to him and we are getting married and doing great! without christ we wouldn't have made it, but now, we are so blessed and are very happy! so is our daughter! mommy and daddy are getting married!

    my father is doing our vows and my brothers are going to have a part in the ceremony also. all my brothers are ministers and have played a big part in mine and my fiance's lives. i too want the gospel told at our wedding and hopefully a life or lives will be touched and hearts moved towards a life with jesus! we are also having communion.

     
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    yorkie    June 13, 2009   Miami, FL

    Wow, I never realized that there was a Christian board on Weddingbee!  How awesome!

    Both FI and I were raised in Presbyterian churches... he in CA and I in FL.  We currently worship and serve at the Baptist church that I've been attending since middle school.

     
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    honeypants    9/9/9   Las Vegas, NV

    I was raised in a Baptist church but consider myself a non-denominational Christian now. It's funny, my FI and I attended the same church at the same time but didn't actually meet IN church. I still have no idea how that happened. :)

     
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    ktbabe    July 17, 009   Indiana

    i never even realized there was a Christian board! how great! the most important thing to FI and I during this whole wedding planning thing is that Christis glorified through and it all. from the wording on the invites, the officiant we chose, to the reception. its so exciting to hear others brides chime in on this! isn't God so good?!

     
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    jc4evaluv    8/1/09   New Jersey

    Yes God sure is good!  FI grew up in a United Methodist church, I grew up in a non-denominational church, and we met at InterVarsity Christian Fellowship during our undergrad years.  Although we currently attend different churches since we live in different states, I'll be joining his after we get married.  To us, Christianity isn't just our faith, but it's our lives.

    Mrs. Caramel - you wrote the words of my heart exactly, and that is what I plan on for my ceremony as well!  

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    missrain    January 2, 2010   Austin

    Mr. Rain and I were both raised in churches of Christ-- his ecumenical and mine more traditional. His father is now a Presbyterian minister and will be our officiant. Mr. Rain and I are both non-denominational and worship with a small non-denominational housechurch in town.

     
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    MaybeeBecca    August 22, 2009   Kansas City, MO

    I just found out there is a Christian board. Yay! (I like the others, too, but it's refreshing to hear people talk about their faith with their wedding )

    My fiance and I go to an inter-denominational church (meaning we embrace all denominations that profess Jesus Christ as Lord as brothers and sisters in Christ -- even if we don't agree with all their particular doctrines). I came from a Catholic background, so most of my family is still Catholic.

    We'll be getting married outdoors, not in a church, but our friend/mentor will be offiating. We'll include worship and a time for the guests to pray for/with us. I'll be walking down the aisle to "How He Loves Us" by Jesus Culture and we're going to end with "The Blessing" by John Waller. Other than that, we're still planning the ceremony, so I'd love to hear how other people incorporated their faith and love for God into their ceremony.

     
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    Iamalighthouse    February 26, 2010   SoCal

    I am from a non-denoniminational church, called Valley Bible in Southern California. I've gone there almost all of my life and it is such a huge blessing to have found a Bible-believing hard-core Jesus church. That's what I like to say I am, rather than "christian." Because so many say "christian"....I believe in the gospel. :) I'm a believer! :)

     
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    MexicanMami    May 15, 2010   San Diego wedding on the bay

    Hello! New to this site and hoping to find some inspiration and also share my comments.

    I am also proud to be a child of God. I attend a non-denominational chuch in San Diego. It is a Calvary Chapel church and I love it. I grew up in a Christian church and for the most part all were Assemblys of God churches. I am blessed to have met a man that believes that the bible is the living word of God, that without Him in our lives are nothing and thanks to His son Jesus we have everlasting life! What else could a girl ask for?

    BTW my fiance and I have started reading a book called "A Marriage After God's Own Heart" by David Clarke. We love it and highly recommend it.

     

     
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    I grew up in a non-denominational church and FI grew up in a Methodist church.  Denominations don't mean much to me, but we're members of a PCA church right now.  When we were looking for a church, we knew we wanted a Bible preaching church and less of a "feel good" kind of place.  We've been really blessed by our church here in Norfolk. 

    We too want our pastor to explain marriage and how it's a representation of Christ and His church.  Many of guests are not believers and we hope that the legacy of marriage in our families and the explanation from the pastor will be a witness to what marriage means and how God has been gracious to us. 

     
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    MexicanMami    May 15, 2010   San Diego wedding on the bay

    Spwigal,

    That is so true. I sounds like you want to impact your family and friends and I'm sure you will. My Uncle will be our officiant and over the past few years friends and non-believing family that have attended weddings, comment on how meaningful the ceremony was. We want that for our guests too!

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    pmerr    August 14, 2010   Rochester, NY

    I was born & raised Lutheran-confirmed into my Lutheran church (where we'll have our wedding) but the FH was born & raised Free Methodist & is now non-denominational (b/c of problems in the church). I began going to his church not long after we started dating (his dad's the pastor but wants to be the dad on his childrens (5 of them) wedding day) & have been going there for the past 4 years or so regularly.

    In the wedding we'll be doing the Cord of Three Strands & doing the whole brading the cords (saw it on www.godsknot.com & fell in love with it). We'll be doing the reading that goes with it (Ecc 4. 9-12) & 1 Corinthians 13.

     
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    Redeemed Rebekah    May 8, 2010   Ont, Canada

    I am a presbyterian church member - but above all a Jesus lover/follower :)

    FH is mennonite (background) don't worry we don't have a buggy and I am definatly not wearing a bonnet!

    To all the Presby ladies.. how many commitees are you in!!!?? lol!
    (prebyterians are known for having a committee for everything!)

    I am in 2. Youth Committee and Creative Worship.

     

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