We're ready!!!
more by MuchGreater
Job interview in less than 12 hours!
reading a great book you bees will love
more in Waiting
Aww! I wish for a proposal this creative!
Not entirely decided about accessories...
more in Boards
is this centerpiece idea OK? she says its not.

If he asked today.... would you say "YES"???

posted 1 year ago in Waiting
  •  
    1.
    Member
    1,031 posts
    Bumble bee
    MuchGreater    November 6, 2011  

    Ladies of the Hive,

    If your SO, love of your life, hunny, sweet sugar darling- asked for your hand in marriage today *spontaneous and all* would you be shocked? And would you say yes"?

     

    I would be extremely HAPPY, SHOCKED, AND SAY YES ALL AT THE SAME TIME!!!! I WOULD MOST DEFINITELY say YES, YES, YES, Yes!!!!!!!

     
    2.
    Member
    1,335 posts
    Bumble bee
    Tunacupcakes       NW

    Of course! He finally worked up the cajones to do it, I'm not going to shut him down!

     
    3.
    Member
    1,031 posts
    Bumble bee
    MuchGreater    November 6, 2011  

    @Tunacupcakes: HAHA UR FUNNY!

     
    4.
    1,740 posts
    Bumble bee
    MissHoneyBun       Dallas, TX

    Of course! I would question someone involved in a site called weddingbee if their answer would be anything else.

     
    5.
    Member
    682 posts
    Busy bee
    WestCoast    May 2013   Canada

    YES!! :D

     
    6.
    Member
    597 posts
    Busy bee
    bas0587    September 22, 2012   Live in MA, Wedding in Newport, NH

    Yes!!!!!! 

     
    7.
    Member
    428 posts
    Helper bee
    Blue-Bird    July 13, 2013   New South Wales, Australia

    I would be in complete shock, I'd probably scream Yes! and then run around calling people like a crazy person lol

     
    8.
    Member Icon
    Member
    1,285 posts
    Bumble bee
    sherryberry    March 13, 2014   BC

    Of course!!

     
    9.
    Member
    374 posts
    Helper bee
    jouissance    September 1, 2012  

    absolutely

     
    10.
    Member
    363 posts
    Helper bee
    MeAndDubby       California

    I know he won't, but if he did I'd of course say yes :)

     
    11.
    Member
    2,891 posts
    Sugar bee
    MsBrooklynA       Midwest

    No I wouldn't say yes...

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

     

    I would say OMFG ARE YOU FUCKING SERIOUS!!! SHUT THE FUCK UP?! NO FUCKING WAY YOU ARE MESSING WITH ME? OF FUCKING COURSE I WILL MARRY YOU!! BUT OMG ARE YOU SURE YOUR SERIOUS BECAUSE I DON'T BELIEVE YOU! AHHHHHHHHHHH

     
    12.
    Member Icon
    Member
    277 posts
    Helper bee
    OmigoshesGrrrl    February 16, 2013   Florida

    hell to the fuck yeah :) We went to see Bridesmaids tonight (totally unlike him to see anything like that but he actually loved it). I always sneak my milkduds, which he hates, into his popcorn, which he hates.  Well during the movie he acted like he put somethin in my milkduds then made a funny face. Heart jumped like it does all the time like *ring* and of course it wasn't.... Because I'm always on edge, anticipating :)  at least I got him to go to a wedding movie and he liked it? That's a start...

     
    13.
    Member
    222 posts
    Helper bee
    Miss Marbles    August 18, 2012   Canada

    @MsBrooklynA: LOL - that was hilarious! My response would be something along those lines also! hahaha

     
    14.
    Member
    2,891 posts
    Sugar bee
    MsBrooklynA       Midwest

    @Miss Marbles: After 4 years of dating, 2 of which have been active waiting, I may not believe him when he finally does it. Sometimes he even pretends to ask me to marry him. He's so cruel :)

     
    15.
    Member
    527 posts
    Busy bee
    mermaideve      

    I would have to say no. We had a discussion earlier today in which I mentioned I am not sure we have made progress in our relationship since a year ago (September will be 3 years since we met and started dating immediately). He has Asperger's syndrome and it makes it difficult to have a relationship. Apart from the aspie trait of not being able to maintain eye contact, he has problems expressing himself verbally. He has never told me I was pretty, although I believe he thinks so. The summer months are upon us and that means visits from and to his various siblings and parents. I've spent time with these people for years and now still feel uncomfortable around them. None of the females (his mother and two sisters) have ever asked me how our relationship is or what our plans are...I find that weird. My family would always ask questions like that. All of my parental figures have passed years ago, so I am left to deal with his family while he doesn't have much of my family to deal with at all. I did not go with him for 4th of July with his family last year because he had offered to propose on July 3, then withdrew the offer about a week beforehand. I am actually embarrassed to keep seeing his family with no ring on my finger and no wedding in the plans. I do realize we are not ready to get married but I just wish it were different. Thanks for listening!

     
    16.
    Member
    123 posts
    Blushing bee
    Nini_Crown    October 21, 2012  

    I WOULD TOTALLY SAY YESS!!!! jumping like crazy, crying like crazy, smiling like i may have a stroke and stay smiling forever :D :D then cry some more, and more hahahaha

     



     
    17.
    Member Icon
    Member
    76 posts
    Worker bee
    ruby13      

    Today I would say no.  We had an argument last night that ended in tears and he said he would propose if that would make me stop crying.  WTF??

     
    18.
    Member
    130 posts
    Blushing bee
    purple_orchids    October 6, 2012   Maryland

    I would most definitely say yes! There wouldn't be a doubt in my mind to say yes.

     
    19.
    Member Icon
    Member
    37 posts
    Newbee
    April_Mae      

    No. I know he doesn't really want to get engaged right now, and I wouldn't be comfortable with that. 

     
    20.
    Member
    157 posts
    Blushing bee
    Immacoconut    October 31, 2012   Twentynine Palms, CA

    I wouldn't be shocked. I would say yes though!

     
    21.
    Member
    322 posts
    Helper bee
    Silentlove    May 19, 2013   West Virginia

    I would be tickled pink, and maybe actually cry for once in front of him. I don't know why but I cannot CRY in front of him. He cries in front of me, but I feel like an ice princess, no tears. But God yes, I'd say yes in a heart beat and then try to jump his bones most likely o.o....I could see myself getting carried away lol

     
    22.
    Member Icon
    Member
    45 posts
    Newbee
    bakergirl    June 18, 2013  

    yes yes yes.  This makes my mind wander into a fantasy of him just walking through the door and getting down on one knee.  *sigh*

     
    23.
    Member Icon
    Member
    1 posts
    Wannabee
    CheekyKay    August 3, 2013  

    Oh my goodness yes! It would be a shock though. Im not expecting it for a couple of years.

     

    Reply

    You must log in to post.





    Visit our sister sites eHarmony
    Online Dating
    eHarmony Advice
    Dating Advice
    Project Wedding
    Wedding Songs
    JustMommies
    Pregnancy Calendar
    Copyright 2004-2012, Weddingbee.com
     

    Find your vendors on Weddingbee

    Real reviews from brides in your area!

    Favors by Weddingbee

    • Favors by season

    Shop Now ยป

    Find Registry Find Registry Find Registry

    More
    User Posts Today
    Lyndzo 52
    Brielle 39
    mypinkshoes 32
    AshleyR83 30
    Cady 29
    ndreighton 27
    fivemonthsnotice 27
    rebwana 26
    funkymunky85 26
    fishbone 26

    Waiting

    User Posts Today
    Scottish_lassie 4
    Lyndzo 4
    pharlap 4
    Regina Phalange 3
    kat2014 3
    HeyKaraoke 3
    ColoradoGirl 3
    fivemonthsnotice 3
    Loribeth 2
    ChicChick 2
    More