(Closed) If he does it, I can do it right?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

😉 Chat away! Personally I think it’s asking for trouble to specifically clam up. It’s only going to bottle and then one day when you least expect it, wedding vomit EVERYWHERE. THEN where will you be? LOL!

Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

I say yes.. if he is bringing it up talk a little but not overbearing it could send him in the opposite direction

Post # 6
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

@flowersandfaerydust:  Once a month is cool… when I mean overbearing i meant like talking about it everyday… Especially whne he is the one bringing it up.. This is a great sign… I would go along with it but try to let him lead the conversations so you can kinda get a feel of where his mind is and feel him out….

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

@Omgbunnies  and then one day when you least expect it, wedding vomit EVERYWHERE. THEN where will you be? LOL!


Haha! I laughed out loud and gave my kitties a fright on this one 🙂

 

@flowersandfaerydust 

Hey, if he’s allowed to mention it, it’s only fair! 🙂

Post # 8
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

Sure! Why not. lol. If he starts the convo I see no reason why you cant talk about it. Smile

Post # 9
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5428 posts
Bee Keeper

I only promised for one week! And that ends Thursday at midnight for me! So Friday morning at 12.01 am… it’s back to yakking again! 

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Leave the chatter for when your with your girlfriends. Allow him to bring it up,  but don’t take that as permission to go crazy with wedding talk. If he never brings it up, you may have to, just to ensure your moving in the same direction.

Post # 11
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

10 days more for me. then I am gonna say SOMETHING (I donnow what yet)

then nothing again until after 9/20.

Then it is free game

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@Omgbunnies:  “wedding vomit” Hahahahahahaaha!

I think it’s perfectly acceptable especially if they are forever referring to you as “future wife”, and saying things about being married to you and spending the next 70 years together.  Sometimes I think I should not say stuff, but then he’s fine when I do.

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I eventually learned to say when I had been waiting too long for my desire “I will only talk about future weddings when I am engaged and able to plan for real”

I didnt want him too comfortable with the way things currently were!

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