If I am in the "house party", am I "in the wedding'

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If I am in the "house party", am I "in the wedding'

posted 3 months ago in Bridesmaids
poll: Am I in the wedding?
OK to tell acquaintances only. : (3 votes)

50 %

No, only bridesmaids... : (0 votes)

You are in the wedding, period. : (3 votes)

50 %

Something else, I will tell you! : (0 votes)

6 votes

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Buzzing bee

cannotwait February 1, 2009 TX

Maybe this is just semantics, but I just feel like it is easier to tell people I am "in the wedding". Of course close friends or whatever I will explain, but is it misleading to tell acquaintances I am in the wedding when telling them I am taking a 1/2 day vacation (for coworkers) or shopping (salespeople)?

Yes, this is a silly question, but I am just wondering how you feel. The 2 bridesmaids are family and all the friends are "house party". I am helping with crafts for the wedding and some planning help and am being asked to wear a certain color of dress (details to give context). The wedding is a Jewish wedding, on a Sunday night, so I might be taking Monday morning off to recover. :-D

3 months ago

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Bumble bee

stillme October 2010

Definitely tell people you're in the wedding. I don't even think that's stretching the truth, since you're involved in the wedding beyond the level of a regular guest.

3 months ago