If I have to ask…

posted 3 years ago in Accessories
  • poll: Can I wear pearls ex-husband gave me for my wedding?
    Yes, sure why not? : (7 votes)
    29 %
    No : (11 votes)
    46 %
    Are you f'ing crazy?!!! : (6 votes)
    25 %
  • Post # 3
    3777 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    Nope, I wouldn’t do it!

    Post # 4
    2305 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: March 2013

    Honestly, if DH didn’t have a problem with it, it sounds like something I’d do.

    But I’m also in the minority in that I wouldn’t have minded a ring from a pawn shop (mine wasn’t, but if it was and he’d gotten a great deal, who cares?!) because I don’t really believe in ‘bad joo joo’ lol.

    Unless it has some special significance to you, it’s just a thing. A material thing.

    Post # 5
    8680 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2014

    I don’t see the big deal with wearing something your ex gave you.

    I still have pieces of jewelry my ex gave me.. they are just beautiful pieces that I like to wear. They don’t MEAN anything.

    Post # 6
    795 posts
    Busy bee

    No way, lol. Not for your wedding. Just a night out, sure. I still wear jewelry from ex’s, but it’s just bad juju to get married in it, I think. 

    Post # 8
    6631 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2011

    If was to anything other than your wedding I would say yes. But I think it would be in bad taste to wear something from an ex to get married to someone else

    Post # 9
    528 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @Sweetnsassy:  I think the title of your post, “If I have to ask…” is your answer. 🙂

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