- 3 years ago
- Wedding: October 2012
I used to be a drama lama but now I hate drama. Seriously, if someone starts drama in my life I have grown a backbone and cut them out without thinking twice (proud of myself).
But I can’t cut my parents out.
I want to go bananas.
Anyways, my mom watches the girls one day during the week. She’s lives with her boyfriend and they have lived together for 13 years. He’s almost 30 years older then her. She had me young and really never grew up. She went from my dad to her boyfriend.
Moving on, I went to pick the girls up last week and her boyfriend told me he’s kicking her out. He’s giving her till the end of the month or she will be forced out. This came as a shock to me but whatever. So panic kinda sets in because now I start to worry about where my mom will live, how will she survive on just her income, yada yada yada.
So BIG EXPLOSION today. I get a call from her boyfriend and shit hit the fan. Long story short. They both gave me two very different stories and she told him to leave for a few days. Cupcakes were smeared on cars, things thrown, affairs uncovered, and just a whole bunch of bull shit.
I just feel like I’m stuck in the middle. I want to be on my moms side but she can be very very very hard to deal with. We don’t have the best relationship. I also feel like my girls are going to be stuck in the middle.
I don’t know how to seperate my feelings and saying “I have my own life, go figure out yours.”
Anyone had to deal with this?