(Closed) If one more person asks me..

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1843 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Wow, how rude! 

Post # 4
2512 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

hahaha I got this too when I moved my date up….. 

Post # 5
417 posts
Helper bee

hahaha! love your picture! See it was opposite for me.. I got pregnant first and everyone started asking when the wedding was.  I replied with ” I dont know, Im pregnanct not engaged.” We didnt get engaged until my daughter was almost one and we were not going to get married just because we were having a baby!  Luckily, it did work out… haha


People never seem to amaze me though with their rudeness.

Post # 7
9056 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

Why would someone as that??  It doesn’t appear that you eve have a short engagement or anything… lame attempt at a joke, me thinks.

Post # 8
1046 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

haha, you have to give some people the benefit of the doubt and assume they just really want to see a cute little baby. My mom, grandma, and future mother in law seem to think that if I tell them my back hurts or if I sneeze  i MUST BE PREGNANT.  False hope ladies, keep waiting.

Post # 9
6826 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Totally get where you are coming from. We were engaged before I got pregnant, like engaged for almost 4 months before I found out was pregnant.  Once a few people found that out, got ohhhh that’s why you are getting married. UM NOOOO hello engaged in Oct, got pregnant in Feb…



Post # 10
3801 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I LOL’d at the picture.

Wait…are you getting married because you are pr…

haha kidding. RUDE. Why can’t people just…let others be? Whatever happened to a nice “wonderful! congrats!” and moving on?

Post # 11
5096 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Turn the tables on them.  I recommend responding, “No.  Why would you ask that?”


Post # 13
153 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

People are rude.  Im sorry, but love the picture that you posted

Post # 15
142 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011


People can be so rude sometimes!  We had some asking if we were getting married for me to stay in the country….ummmm I already have my American passport…plus I think my fiance is amazing and worth loving…don’t you…future aunt in law? Just saying lol

Post # 16
3257 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

A few people asked that of me, as well. I think they just asked because we are in our early twenties, but c’mon, people. We have been together for years, so OBVIOUSLY it was headed in this direction. lol. 

People have no tact sometimes. Blow ’em off!

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