(Closed) If one more person says: “________”, I might have to strangle them.

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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7175 posts
Busy Beekeeper

LOLOL – I’m with you on the “ARE YOU EXCITED” question…. that one kills me EVERY time.

I’m going crazy with the family shower that’s being thrown for me next week – no matter how many times I tell them I don’t want to be involved with any planning or decision making – I feel like I’m being asked something EVERY day.  I feel so ungrateful to get aggravated – but I.DON’T.WANT.TO.THINK.ABOUT.IT.

Post # 4
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5921 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

“Wow, a New Year’s Eve wedding?  That’s . . . different.”

Post # 7
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3176 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

The “It’s YOUR day” KILLLLLLLS ME every freaking time I hear it!!! If its really my freaking day then why does everyone else have opinions and ideas on what I have to do!

Post # 8
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201 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

 “am I invited?” UGHH! Drives me crazy! Seriously? Who thinks that is an ok question to ask. If you have to ask, I don’t want to talk to you!

1. “You should…” If I wanted your advise, I would have asked. Thanks anyways. You had your wedding, now it’s our turn.

2. Also, I am pregnant (wedding has been planned for a year, pregnancy was not planned) obviously it has been an adjustment, but whatever we are happy. If I hear one more time: “What are you going to do with your dress” I may hurt them. I am going to wear it and I am going to glow! Now get out of my face!

Post # 9
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438 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

“2012? You have SOOO much time!” or “2012? Why are you waiting so long?”

I realize that its a long time…I don’t need you to tell me. Also, its none of your damn bussiness why we are waiting till 2012!

Post # 11
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97 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: March 2016

1. “What’s your colors/theme?” (Why? Are you going to go and buy a dress that looks exactly like the bridal party? I get asked this at least twice a week.)

2. “How much do you have done?” (Are you going to help me book things if I tell you what I don’t have done?)

I know we’ve got a little bit of time to plan, but ALREADY people with their nagging questions drives me NUTS!

Post # 12
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7175 posts
Busy Beekeeper

@VirginiaMarie:you SO made the right decision.  My mom was fretting about me not having a shower – saying you HAVE to have a shower.  Then she wanted my sister (who wasn’t speaking to me at the time) to throw it.   MOM – what part of NO do you not understand?!?!  Then, sister came around and it gave them something to work on – so I said -ok, great.  I get a call anytime anything happens (if there are no RSVP calls, if there are RSVP calls, if she went to the store to find something)…. seriously people?!  

Post # 13
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35 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: October 2010

…….did you lose any weight yet?….

why thank you…I didn’t already know that time is ticking by quickly…. Its like, yeah I know that I am bigger than I want to be, and I am trying hard to change that….BUT I don’t need anyone reminding me!  Will I only make a  beautiful bride if I am skinny? WTF

Post # 14
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7175 posts
Busy Beekeeper

I like the “what is your theme” question, personally.  I give them the blank look with “Wedding” and “Love” as my answers 😉  

Post # 15
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@VirginiaMarie: 1. “It’s YOUR day”.   I don’t subscribe to this mentality.  If it really was my day, none of you would be here.

I HATE HATE HATE when people say that! I agree with you 100000%! If it was MY day I wouldn’t be paying for it, stressing about it, and basically putting on a party for 100+ people! If it was my day, people wouldn’t be creating unnecessary drama.

Post # 16
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5978 posts
Bee Keeper

The “It’s YOUR day” drove me nuts too…especially when my mom said it to me. That meant that she didn’t approve of whatever I had decided on. It was awesome to hear.

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