If one more person says this… then I will punch them in the face.

posted 3 years ago in TTC
Post # 3
863 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@Sbee82:  Ugh that SUCKS. I know people have good intentions at heart – they just want to reassure you and tell you that it does happen even if it takes a long time – but there’s nothing comforting about the idea of trying for a decade before a baby comes.  I also HATE it when people say ‘it will happen when it happens’ about anything. NO SHIT IT WILL HAPPEN WHEN IT HAPPENS! That’s not comforting at all! 

I’m sorry people are being such assholes and I wish you the best of luck TTC. I’m sure your time will come really soon (is that another annoying one?).

Post # 4
500 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

@Sbee82:  I could have wrote this myself. I HATE when people say, “Well, I know blah blah blah and it took them six years, but look! They got pregnant!” 

I think it’s worse than, “Maybe God isn’t ready for you to be pregnant yet.” Well, maybe not worse than, but damn close. 

Post # 5
2869 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@Sbee82:  preach!!! I flipped the bird at a friend that had the BALLS to tell me ” Well IVF isn’t natural and that’s why you had a miscarriage. It’s against God” She’s lucky all she got was my finger and not my fist in her stupid face. People say relax/ it will happen/ it took my friend X years because they think that’s helpful or comforting… for the most part. People struggle with what to say and end up saying a total bonehead thing. Usually it’s not from a bad place but it’s still annoying as hell. 

Post # 6
1925 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Vent away!! I’m glad Im not the only one getting this.  And we haven’t even told people we are TTC! So don’t kick yourself about that.

Post # 7
401 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

@Sbee82:  I’m sorry. That really sucks!

Post # 8
4468 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Sbee82:  that totally sucks:( I hate bring told to relax about anything!

Post # 9
319 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

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Post # 11
632 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Just want to say – i feel your pain.  I hate hearing the JUST RELAX!  I am relaxed and to make more more relaxed STOP TELLING ME TO RELAX!  Sorry – just got AF today – there goes month 6 of trying.  Such a bummer!  I keep telling myself – its okay – at least I can imbibe on Holiday Egg Nog and such 🙂

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