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If there was no champagne (or champagne like drink) would you miss it?

posted 1 year ago in Reception
  • poll: If you attended a wedding with no toasting champagne, would you miss it?
    Yes : (31 votes)
    19 %
    No : (76 votes)
    48 %
    Other : (1 votes)
    1 %
    What you are doing (full bar, white/red wine) is fine. Stop thinking about it. : (51 votes)
    32 %
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    oracle    October 23, 2010   Los Angeles

    I'm planning on not having champagne at the wedding.  FI doesn't like it - I do - but am fine without it.  We'll have a full bar and white and red wine.  Do you think it really matters if I skip it (we wouldn't pour it to toast with it, even if we had it).

    Thoughts?

     
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    I wouldn't miss it at all. Full bar with red/white wine should be perfect!

     
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    crayfish    September 11, 2010   Berkeley, CA

    I love champagne, but I also love wine. I would be 100% happy without the champagne!

     
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    lilikas23    January 1, 2011   New Bedford, MA

    Wouldn't be missed....only reason I'm having it mandatorily there at my wedding is because it's New Years Eve and the "I DO's" are at midnight!  besides that, I think it's n additional cost you can skimp on without any issue.

     
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    baldor1    May 7, 2012   Southern California

    With the other selections you have available it wouldn't be missed.

     
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    june42011    January 29, 2012   NORTH DAKOTA

    I won't miss it. I contemplated having a champagne toast but for the price it just wasn't worth it.

     
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    cbee    July 26, 2010  

    I wouldn't even notice.

     
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    I wouldn't even notice! We're skipping champagne too! :)

     
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    meliss    May 31, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    We had a debate about this. We also had an open bar cocktail with white/red wine for dinner, and I opted to forego the bubbly at $50/bottle as charged by our venue. My husband however insisted on having a champagne toast, he said it wouldn't feel like a complete wedding to him without one. So we ended up having it and his irresponsible friends ended up drinking way too much of it (on our tab). As a guest I'd maybe think of it after the fact "hey there was no champagne" but not really miss it.

     
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    Honestly, I see the chapagne toast go awry all the time!

    1. The venue doesn't begin pouring it quickly enough and the DJ is trying to start the toasts and there's a lapse of "what's happening, OK, one more song...."
    2. People don't drink it. They are enjoying their beer/wine/beverage of choice.
    3. People don't want to drink champagne on top of the other beverages consumed
    4. It's completely forgotten
    5. it's an expense and hassle all for a small qty per guest

    We are foregoing the champagne, and we're only having beer/wine. YOULL BE FINE! :-)

     
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    MelanieAnne    March 26, 2011   Wedding in St. Louis, moving to California

    I'd probably notice it, but with an open bar, I wouldn't really care.  I think what you're doing is totally fine.

     
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    Ms Mini    July 17, 2010   Medicine Hat, AB

    I love champagne more than any other alcoholic drink, I actually drink it whenever it is available, and we keep a bottle around the house for when the desire hits ... so I would totally miss it!

     
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    Selene221    October 31, 2012  

    No because I don't like champagne of any kind. Alot of other people don't drink it either (hence why most champagne toasts go to waste and people take one sip out of obligation and leave the rest) and prefer to drink something else instead. I know our guests wouldn't miss it since none of them drink it, period. With a full bar, someone should be able to find something they prefer, including nonalcoholic options.

     
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    bride2bejc    June 25, 2011   Live in Jersey City, Wedding was in NYC

    I wouldn't miss it, and the only reason why I'm having it is because my venue included it in the package/price.  I found a few places that were going to charge $17-$22 per person for a 2-second toast--like seriously? I wouldn't have paid more for it.

     
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    sailor    May 2010  

    Even though I love champagne, I think what you're doing is fine.  We had glasses of champagne distributed to all the guests before the toasts, and much of it sat there untouched.  We also had a full open bar and most people preferred to toast with whatever they had in front of them.

     
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    Minutiae    May 2011  

    I wouldn't miss it a bit, especially if there were other alcoholic beverages available.

     
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    peanutlovespumpkin    9-18-10   Los Angeles

    I'm pretty sure we won't have a champagne toast either, but we're having a full bar.  Honestly, I can't remember whether or not I've had champagne for the toasts at any other wedding, including those that I have been to while I am planning our wedding!  Don't stress about it :)

     
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    ms.pascua    June 25, 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    I wouldn't miss it. We didn't have it & no one noticed...everyone toasted with what they had.

     
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    kaybee    December 5, 2009   Oklahoma City

    Beer and wine only at our reception and nobody complained.

     
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    smiles1979    April 30, 2011   Nrth Central, MA

    I voted no. Esp. since I too am planning on not toasting w. champagne, but have everyone toast w. whatever they have...whether that's water.beer.mixed drink.wine,etc.

    Saves a little on cost too. :)

    p.s. my package for our wedding also 'comes with the champagne toast' but I asked our wedding planner to remove it from our package. She said it was only $1 per person...but then told us she could apply that extra $ toward the plated dinners...thus making them a bit cheaper per person. :)

    Win win I think. :)

     
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    We do toasts at every dinner celebrating something big and do it with whatever is in our glass (sometimes there's champagne but not usually).  I like champagne but wouldn't think twice if it wasn't there.

     
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    husky    October 2, 2010   Denver

    We'll get a few bottles of champagne, but we're not doing the full champagne toast.  When it's gone, it's gone, and people can choose something else to drink.

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    I'm obsessed with champagne.  I get it everywhere (constantly celebrating yaaaay, lol) even if its totally not that kinda place.  However, if I went to a wedding that didn't have it, I'd be disappointed for like a second.  I'd order it, they'd say they didn't have it and I'd order a different drink.  No worries.  Everyone should be able to find an alternative. 

     
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    you dont make friends w salad    March 26, 2011  

    Can you bring your own bubbly?  You can get prosecco, cava, or other sparkling wines for less than 10 dollars/bottle if you buy a case or more.  There are quite a few American wineries producing "champagne-style" sparkling wines these days that are excellent quality.

     
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    spaganya    September 4, 2010   Arlington, VA/wedding in Williamsburg, VA

    seriously no one will miss it - stop worrying about it :)

     
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    jaylovessteez    September 19, 2010   CA

    I dont think we are doing champagne toast.. just a normal toast.. not many people i know drink champagne.. im not even sure if we are going to have wine.

     
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    PinkPinstripes    November 2011   Boston, MA

    I love champagne and so, I want it at my wedding. But if I attended a wedding with a full bar like yours, I wouldn't miss it.

     
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    pansyshell    October 8, 2010   Central Pa, Wedding in Outer Banks, NC

    I wouldn't miss it at all. I think a toast is a toast and it doesn't matter what drink you have in your hand, however...

    I was just at a wedding where they brought out apple cider and poured it like champagne. This wouldn't have been a problem if it was an alcohol free wedding, but it wasn't and guests had no clue their glasses were not filled with champagne. To say the least they seemed shocked and confused. If it were me I would have just skipped all champagne and champagne like drinks and asked the guests to grab a glass of whatever for the toast

     
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    stlginkgo    3/20/10  

    I wouldn't miss it esp since you have other drinks for people to toast with!

     
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    daniellemybelle    June 19, 2010   Baltimore, MD

    I would notice its absence, but I would definitely not care!

     
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    artbee    February 28, 2010  

    i'd be happier without it. i hate wasting it b/c i never drink it.

     
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    kjpugs    March 20, 2010   Indianapolis, IN

    We didn't have it! We all just toasted with what we were drinking!

     
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    Allyser    September 1, 2010  

    I always seem to like the idea of champagne for special occasions but then when i start to sip it i remember that I don't like the taste that much! I don't see a problem with not having it but i have heard some people wonder why it's missing. If you have other drink options than i wouldn't worry about it. 

    We are serving it before the ceremony at a champagne reception while people come in but we aren't serving it the rest of the night. We will have wine, beer and some specialty drinks for the actual reception. 

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    I think having champagne for toasts is a nice touch but with the other choices you have it isn't needed. :)

     
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    lulu mae    January 8, 2012   NY

    I voted yes.... only because if I were a guest I would notice it wasn't there for the toasts and I guess that kind of counts as missing it... but I wouldn't really miss it in the way that I would mind one way or another. :) If you don't have champagne I think that would be alright.

     
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    suttonista    November 13, 2010   New York City

    I actually had to pay extra just so I could have it, otherwise half the reception would have been miffed.

     
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    2dBride    October 6, 2009   Washington, DC.

    We had real champagne at the luncheon following the ceremony, and Prosecco at the at-home reception.  However, I did these things only because (for complicated reasons) we didn't pay extra for it, either place.  I think having guests toast with whatever they are currently drinking is fine.

     
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    SapphireSun    July 9, 2010   Vancouver, BC

    We didn't have it at our wedding.  People just toasted with their drink of choice, and it was fine.

     
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    lilyfaith    June 23, 2012   Lakeview, Chicago

    I enjoy champagne, and I'd notice if there wasn't any, but I wouldn't be upset or put out in any way. 

     

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