Post # 1
Obviously, we love our big lugs. Otherwise, we wouldn’t be saying “I do.” Plus, to change one thing is to change everyting, and we fell in love with them the way they are, and not what we wish them to be. But, just for fun, what would you change?
I would want my fiance’ to be less of an introvert.
What say you bees?
Post # 3
I dunno… at the risk of sounding cliche and trite, I love my FI just the way he is! Some of the qualities I might list here are also the qualities that drew me to him initially and that really balance me out as a person.
Post # 4
My DH has a bit of a stammer. Sometimes he just can’t get the words out, and he flubbers all over them, or replaces a word with something else that doesn’t make as much sense. My heart broke the day I found our that he didn’t order pina colada at a restaurant because he knew he wouldn’t be able to say it to the waitress!
I would take that away from him in a heartbeat, not because it annoys or bothers me, but because I know how insecure he is about it and how much it holds him back.
Awww I just had a “love hubby” moment.
Post # 5
I think IF I could change anything about him, I would make him less of a workaholic. It’s pretty normal for him to work 50 or more hours a week. He has a great work ethic, which I admire, but I selfishly would like him to spend more hours with me.
Post # 6
He wouldn’t fart so much. 🙂
Post # 8
@Cash000: LOL! That’s pretty universal. How can you tell when they wake up? *fart*
Post # 9
He is perfect for me…I love him with all of my heart….but, DAMN , I wish he would give me a foot massage now and then!
Post # 10
Uh, I wish he were taller.
Post # 11
@MaiFuture: Okay, I’ll bite on that one. FI is only like 1/2 an inch taller than me. If he were taller, I could wear those 4-inch heels I LOVE. Taller would be nice.
Post # 12
@Cash000: I’m with you on that one, lol
I think if I could change something about him it would definately be for him to show me a bit more affection in the summer time.It’s like I don’t even exist.
I’ll explain, he is a dump truck driver, so in the summer he works days and nights, I don’t see him at all, maybe like 10 minutes tops from Sunday night to Saturday morning. Then Saturday during the day he goes to his dad’s shop (mechanic) and does the accounting portion of it. After that he comes home, showers and goes to bed. Sunday we don’t do nothing cuz he’s gotta work Sunday night and he wants to relax.This goes on from April to November. Then he doesn’t work unless there’s snow.
So all I’m asking if for some kisses when he comes home or when he leaves, I don’t even get that!
Sorry I didn’t mean to vent here, it kinda felt nice to do it though, thanks for listening.
Post # 13
That he would’ve stumbled into my life MUCH MUCH SOONER! 😀
Post # 13
I think it would be that he’d take charge a little bit more. I feel like I’m the one who has to make plans ALL THE TIME. Whether it’s where we’re going to eat or making serious life plans I feel like I’m the one who thinks about it and plans it all out. I think part of it comes from the fact that I’m fairly type A so he knows that I’ll always take care of it…whatever it is. I’m pretty sure if he could change something about me it would be that I wouldn’t worry as much lol. Funny because if he’d take charge more often I probably wouldn’t worry so much.
Post # 14
I’d make him stop biting his nails. Drives me nuts
Post # 15
I wish he’d remember to cut his toenails before he visits. We’re long distance, and only see each other every few months… and it’s like wolverine feet. Tee hee :-D. I love everything else though! And I guess I could remind him as soon as he takes his shoes off to cut those grizzlies before they cut me :-D. I wonder if he only cuts them when I see him… nah, jk, they’re not that bad!