Post # 1
We definitely all learn lessons the hard way. If I could only give one piece of advice, it would be to all teenagers: SAVE MONEY! When I was in high school and early college, I didn’t have much bills to worry about… But I blew my money like it grew on trees. Now, at 26, I would give anything to get back all the money I had then! I have more important things to be spending that money on now than I did then… If only I had realized that sooner!
What about you guys?
Post # 3
I would tell teenage me (and other girls like me) something my mom told me that has only recently begun to stick. “Be a duck.” Water rolls right off of a ducks back, no matter how much there is. Even now, especially today, I have to remind myself to be a duck and just let the water (read:crap from other people) roll right off my back.
Post # 4
- Wedding: March 2012 - Pelican Grand Beach Resort
Study something you care about. If you just want job training, go to a trade school, not college.
Post # 5
Depends on who I would give advice to, I will go with brides on here since for the most part that is the goal of this site. Don’t stress about every single thing when planning your wedding.
Now for parenting: I would say for advice do what you think is best for your child. Go with your gut on weather or not to say BF or cloth diapering to if should enroll your child into preschool.
Now for teen years: Stop being so entittled and go do some volunteer work. Learn about others who have less than you. Be humbled by it.
Post # 6
Real love isn’t like disney movies or quotes on pinterest. Real love takes work and dedication. There will be fights but you have to love each other enough to work through the fights, not just throw it all away. It’s not always rainbows and butterflies, but in the end it is so worth it to be with the one who makes your life complete.
Post # 7
If it were teenage me id say, CARE about your grades in high school so you might actually be able to go to a good college one day, and then STAY in college! ugh. I was so dumb as a teenager. Id also say, forget about making friends and your social life because after high school you wont even talk to those people anymore.
Post # 8
- Wedding: June 2013 - Upstate NY
I teach high schoolers and I tell them, “Do something that makes you excited about the world.”
just kidding, I heard that on an NPR interview. Very inspiring.
I tell them, “Seriously, guys, major in something that you can find a JOB in!”
Post # 9
take care of your credit! I blew my credit score thanks to applying and maxing out a gazillion student credit cards when i was in college and not having the money to pay them back. It sucked having to need a cosigner when I needed a new car and student loans. It took years to rebuild!
Post # 10
- Wedding: August 2013 - Brookfield Zoo
Don’t live life with regrets. If you want to do something, go for it! Don’t let opportunities pass you by only to wonder “what if”.
Post # 11
Chill.Seriously, in most cases, it probably isnt that big a deal, and if it is,keep your head!
Post # 12
Hmmm I’m actually pretty happy with everything. I’d just tell my younger self to do things exactly as I did!
Post # 13
LIVE your life, do all the things you want to do, don’t sweat the small stuff, pick and choose your battles and above all DON’T take your youth and/or health for granted because you never know when it could be suddenly ripped away from you. I know that’s more than one piece of advice, but from a disabled person to those who are able bodied, those are all really valuable lessons.
Post # 14
Several words of advice..
Use common sense,
Love yourself because no one else can if you cant.
Understand that everyone is human and makes mistakes.
Dont settle for anything less than the very best of everything life has to offer you
Karma is real and will get you
and the very best advice ever..about giving and receiving advice
Post # 15
If you are depressed, get help!
Post # 16
The one and only “consejo” (Um… wise saying?) that my dad has is:
Don’t do something well that you do not want to do often.
Great advice, Dad!
Mine would have to be Spell check that sh*t.