If you could only have one person stand up for you?

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Who would you choose?
    Your only sister : (57 votes)
    60 %
    Your best friend : (38 votes)
    40 %
  • Post # 3
    4540 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: May 2014 - Royalton White Sands

    My sister. 

    Post # 4
    2400 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    My sister. I love my best friend but I regret having her before my sister.

    Post # 5
    4513 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    Depends on how close you are to your sister. I’m an only child, but I have 3 stepsisters. In my case? I’d choose my best friend.

    I’d just choose whoever I’m closest to regardless of our relationship.

    Post # 6
    196 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Stand up for you… as in maid of honor or something else?

    My sister is my matron of honor and best friend maid of honor.

    Post # 7
    1888 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    In all fairness to the poll, I’m an only child so it’s a no-brainer that I picked my best friend.

    Post # 8
    2063 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2014

    my sister.

    i could never put into words how much my sister means to me, so i wont even try.

    shes always been there for me and stuck up for me when no one else did. id take a bullet for that girl in a heartbeat and i know shed do the same for me.

    Post # 9
    1367 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Sister. We share things that I don’t share with anyone else.

    Post # 10
    2097 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    I’d pick my sister all day, every day. Then again my sister is also my best friend! Really though….blood is thicker than water and my family means more to me than any other thing in this world.

    Post # 11
    2537 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    My sister but she’s not going to be there. 🙁  My best friend will be though so that helps but I’m still heartbroken over my sister not coming.

    Post # 13
    1346 posts
    Bumble bee

    Best friend. My sister is 6 years older than me and I’ve been friends with my best friend since we were toddlers, so she’s basically family anyway. Also my sister doesn’t like attention- pictures, etc. I only plan on having my best friend as a bridesmaid and would invite only her if my SO and I decide to elope.

    Post # 14
    8282 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2012

    Like adoc said, it really depends on your relationship with your sister. (I don’t have one, thank goodness). 

    I would have chosen my mom, but she was walking me down the aisle. So I chose my best friend. 

    Post # 16
    5333 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I did only have one and it was my sis.

    But I don’t have a “way back” type best friend.

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