If you pay for the flower girl dress…

posted 3 years ago in Dress
  • poll: If you pay for the flower girl dress, is it weird to ask for it back after?
    YES : (21 votes)
    78 %
    NO : (5 votes)
    19 %
    Other : (1 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    It wouldn’t be bad, but it would be weird. It’d be like asking for a gift back.

    Post # 4
    Member
    950 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Sounds like a gift and so asking for it back is a bit… rude?

    Post # 5
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    42472 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    @lovelyduckie:  I think there is a way to do it but you would definitely need to make it clear ahead of time what you planned to do.

    ” I am going to provide the dress, but I need you to know that I am going to (sell, donate) it after the wedding.”

    Post # 6
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    197 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    I saw it as a gift to my flower girl, so I would not have felt right asking it for it back. Try to find a dress that’s within your budget or maybe even borrow?

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