Ok just read this and to me is just insane. im guilty too of hypothetically planning my wedding before I was even close to being engaged or even in a relationship. Weddings are beautiful and most peoplewomen dream of the big day and what the details will be. But to have planned your wedding for real? idk. thoughts??
That’s crazy. There is no way my FI would let me have everything already picked out. If I did and he allowed it this would be so much more stress free lol. The fact that I really had my heart set on Gray and Yellow for my color scheme and he said “NO” sorta broke my heart. But I was ok with it and we found colors together that we both like.
I wonder if she isn’t really high maintainence/control freak and he realizes this and just says “Sure honey whatever you want”. Or maybe he just doesn’t care as much as she does.
Men care just as much about their weddings as women do. It may be far and few between but OMG my cousins husband was involved in EVERYTHING and there were just some requests that he “HAD” to have that were ridiculous, like a single red rose on everyones plate. We were all like ummm red roses are really expensive and on 500 plates! (yes they had 500 guests and actually I think it was closer to 550). Some men become just as crazy as women. In fact we nicknamed “Groom-zilla” lol.
@stardustintheeyes: Wrong on so many levels. The poor groom,its his wedding too and doesn’t take any if his tastes into account,she could have any man to play the role it would seem.
We don’t have a date set but I have a couple of pinterest boards with things I like,my FI knows I do though and I wouldn’t be looking at wedding stuff if we hadn’t talked marriage/got engaged.
Never would I do that. My SO and I are just a handful of months away from getting engaged (anytime before mid-May). I’ve done some basic research into venues and dresses, but I’ve only looked online. I would never try to plan a wedding without my guy’s input… but that’s mostly because I’d rather elope and he’s more set on a small wedding. Lol!
But yeah, having everything planned out without even being in a relationship is definitely going too far!