If your husband allowed you to have sex with other men, would you?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: If your husband remained faithful but allowed YOU to have sex with other men, would you?
    Yes : (95 votes)
    13 %
    No : (551 votes)
    73 %
    Maybe : (107 votes)
    14 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4525 posts
    Honey bee

    Nope. Never in a million years.

    Post # 4
    Member
    11416 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: December 2010

    No. If I wanted to be in a open relationship that would have been discussed before marriage. Even if he stayed 100% faithful I couldn’t nor would want to. My husband would never in ten million years be okay with something like this in the first place. But even if he were okay it, no way would I be.

     

    Post # 5
    Member
    5985 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2010

    why get married if you wnat to have sex with other people…

    makes no sense.

     

    Post # 6
    Member
    4480 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    No, it would feel weird and wrong to me because our relationship has been monogamous from day 1.  I’m not a person who ever slept around, so I don’t even know how I’d do that even if I wanted to.

    Post # 8
    Member
    79 posts
    Worker bee

    No, I wouldn’t.  I could never imagine myself being with anyone else.

    Post # 9
    Member
    166 posts
    Blushing bee

    I could never even consider sleeping with someone else. SO and I would never be okay with that at all.

    Post # 10
    Member
    2334 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    @GirlPower:  i definitely wouldnt cos even if he “gave permission” it would change the relationship i think, and its just not worth it. id feel sick doing that

    Post # 11
    Member
    2251 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Absolutely not. I would never in a million years be ok with him sleeping around, so why would I do that to him, even if he gave me “permission”? Just no.

    Post # 12
    Member
    4438 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    No way! I would never go there.

    Post # 13
    Member
    817 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    It depends. Is Joe Manganiello available for purposes of this hypothetical question?

    Post # 14
    Member
    2440 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Worst.Idea.Ever

    Post # 15
    Member
    11226 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2009

    No. Because of our faith, my DH and I subscribe to the concept of sexual purity (i.e. abstinence) before marriage and complete fidelity within marriage. 

    Post # 16
    Member
    5408 posts
    Bee Keeper

    Heck no. Marriage = monogamy to me. If I wanted to sleep around, I would stay single. 

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