(Closed) Staying in or Going Out?? – Bachelorette Party – (long but please help!?)

posted 8 years ago in Parties
  • poll: What should we do?
    Stay in all night - Sex/City Party : (2 votes)
    22 %
    Eat at home and go out for the Scavenger Hunt : (4 votes)
    44 %
    Other - see my idea below! :) : (3 votes)
    33 %
  • Post # 3
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    As a low key girl I have a few concerns… First of all even if it was only 6 or 7 people I was closer I’d be fairly uncomfortable with a group of people bringing me lingerie. As for the rest of the sex in the city idea I can’t really say much because I’ve never seen it. I love the scavenger hunt idea for the casino but I’m not so sure that a club scene would work for her if thats not what she’s into. I did think of two things that popped into my head that we actually did during our wedding weekend with our friends that may work for you though. Is there a nearby bar that does karaoke? We had a lot of fun having a couple drinks and watching people make fools of themselves even though it wasn’t anyone in our group that actually sang. Another thing we had fun doing with our friends was going cosmic bowling. We found a bowling alley open late that turned the lights down played some good music and had disco type lighting. We all enjoyed a few drinks, bowled in the goofiest ways possible, and laughed our butts off. Good Luck in whatever you plan- you’re a great friend!

    Post # 5
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    248 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2011

    *You know your friend…do what you think the Bride will like the most!*

    I think the dinner at home (then lingerie shower…which is always fun at the bachelorette, I think!) and scavenger hunt at the casino would be fun and if it would still by pretty low cost, everyone should end up happy. You can always leave the casino early if it’s not fun and crash at home since you live close! Hope it works out! I think it’s more fun to get dressed up to go out, even just for a few drinks together! πŸ™‚

    Post # 6
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    179 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Im totally down for the casino, but Im partial because i love tulalip! (being a lynnwood/seattle bride myself)  and he’ we’re almost date twins!! having dinner at ur place and doing a pre party would help get it started, keep the cost down (MOH concern) but still be fun, and the casino not only has the lounge, but the casino which is great to hang out without people being forced to spend more money than they want…maybe after a little time at the casino, go back and have the lingerie shower…everyone will have mingled with each other and prob be more comfortable, making it less akward and  a bunch of fun!

    Post # 9
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    I think you should get the bride and her friends out of their comfort zones … isn’t that what a bachelorette party is for? (I mean who wears penis themed stuff because it’s in their comfort zone??)  You sound like the perfect friend to bring them somewhere exciting. I guess if you want to cook dinner first that would be okay, but she might prefer something more exotic, too! Having them sleep over later after they are good and drunk — now that’s a good use of the ‘sleepover’ template!

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