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Hi!  I'm MOH in my college friend's wedding on Saturday.  She and I live several states apart, so I've actually never met her fiance.  Here's the toast I have (so far):

I’ve known Kelly since freshman year of college, when we lived on the same hall in our freshman dorm.  We survived four years of nutty roommates, late night study sessions at the IHOP, and all of the ups and downs that come during your college years.  Kelly is truly a unique person – she is who she is, and if you don’t like that she orders her grilled chicken sandwiches with the bread on the side, well, then, too bad.  Kelly is, though, the most loyal friend anyone could ask for.  She has helped me when I was sick, she’s laughed along with me at the silly side of life, she’s held me when I cried.  Kelly adores her family and her close friends, and she is unwavering in her support.  Jay, you have found a woman who is completely devoted to you, and I know you treasure that about her too.  To Kelly and Jay – a lifetime of love and devotion. 

Ergh, yep, it's more lopsided than I thought, isn't it.  I think I may wind up waiting until the last minute to add more "Jay" since hopefully I'll get a few good stories out of the couple of days before the wedding.  I'm racking my brain right now and I can't think of anything without talking about how supportive he's been of her  medical issues (and I don't want to go there at all).

If you're worried about not knowing Jay very well, perhaps you could connect the way you describe Kelly's commitment and support to those she loves ("adores her family and her close friends, and she is unwavering in her support") to the way you've seen her treat/talk about Jay? (What makes you confident that Kelly's so devoted to him, for example.)

You may not know him well enough to explain how you know he loves her, but you could add a sentence or two about why you know Kelly's crazy for him just before the last two sentences. Your friend is lucky to have a sweet MOH putting so much thought into her toast!