- 4 years ago
- Wedding: July 2014
Im kind of at war with myself about my best friend. She has been my best friend since high school and we kind of parted ways after we graduated, she moved to a different town, I had a full time job so our friendship kind of just faded until one day she called me up and asked me if i wanted to be one of her bridesmaid in her wedding. I didnt even know she was engaged! Which of course i said yes, her and her FI ended up moving back to her home town (which is also my home town) and we became friends again. Soon after they were married, she ended up pregnant and i was by her side most of the time, I came to the hospital, stayed with her a couple of hours every other day when she came home from the hospital and then after she came home she was have extremely bad post pardom depression and she wanted to move back in with her parents, she told me that she was going to talk to her husband about them moving in with her parents untill she got over this emotional state that she was in and he finally agreed and after that we kind of fell back out of friendship again, we would call and text each other every now and then but we never visited each other.
Now we are started to see each other more, she invited my boyfriend and I to her church and now i help her on wednesday nights with bible school.
But when its just me and her, shes always talking about how she misses dating and talking to other guys. One day she told me if she could just have one night with a particular guy “oh the things she would do to him”. Shes always talking about this guy and that guy and she will try to get me to agree with her, I guess to make her feel better about herself. She ask “well dont you ever just want to have one free day away from your boyfriend” “a day where its ok to cheat” and im like no, no i dont have any desire to be with anyone else or date anyone else. I dont think she has done it yet but i do believe that she has the capability to cheat on her husband.
And i dont think thats good for me and my boyfriends relationship. Of course i would never cheat on him but being around her just brings me down. I dont want to hear her say how she would love to do things to a guy thats not her husband. She calle me one day bawling because she thought her husband was having an affair but then she goes and talks about how she misses dating and talking to other guys. She even told me that she was texting a guy that wanted to get with her.
It just seems like she wouldnt be good to have around after my boyfriend and I get married but shes my best friend….