- 7 years ago
I have been gone a little while, and to be honest, found it very hard to come to this website knowing my username and my original intention on this website (still cant go to the wedding related board yet) but just in case you guys were wondering, heres an update on me.
I am not sure I told you guys but FI snick off to spend a weekend with friends in Miami. He told me he was going to spend time with a family friend in Memphis. He was going to drive down on a Thursday and return on Sunday. While he was away, I came across credit card statements to credit cards I didnt know he had and then found out he was texting my friend in Miami about where to find some things. Then after some research I discovered that he was in Miami with friends. When I confronted him, he said he was very stressed out and needed a break. While I was sitting at home, thinking he was taking the time to speak with someone about his issues with getting married and wanting to have the baby. He was really dancing on top of the bar at Coyote Ugly and taking shots.
From there, former FI and I have decided to part ways for the time being with hopeful thoughts of maybe returning to our relationship at a later date. Right now, we are working on being civil for the baby’s sake and trying to work through our ideals and co-parenting.
I have since moved back with my parents, and have been focusing on myself and the baby. Although former FI and I have agreed that we’re able to see other people, he has not dated anyone. I have gone out a few times with someone who I have known for years before FI. Nothing serious is transpiring, we’re just hanging out and having fun. Former FI is not a fan…but I am sure he will get over it. With all thats been going on with us and our relationship, our cancelled wedding, he’s distinct anger over the baby, I just wanted to be able to smile again, and I have.
So thats me now! How are you?