(Closed) I’m back…and lots has changed :[ (very very very long)

posted 8 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 3
Member
1106 posts
Bumble bee

Oh I cant even imagine how hard this is going to be for you. My BF and I are LD.. hes in Pittsburgh and Im in Atlanta. We talk to each other pretty much all day and we text each other as much as possible. Keeping our lines of communication open and keeping each other on our minds throughout the day has really strengthend our relationship. Unfortunately thats the only advice I can give you :(. Stay strong.. if its meant to work out.. it will!!!

Post # 5
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577 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Man that’s awful …. I don’t know if this is possible, but since he’s planning on moving out of MA anyways, could he move to TX to be with you?  If not, do you guys have an end date to your LDR?  

Post # 6
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I’m sorry you two aren’t going to be together.  Is there any specific reason why he is moving to Milwaukee instead of to Texas with you?  I couldn’t really figure out from your post.  Anyway I know how hard it is to be long distance but I’m sure you two can work it out.

Post # 7
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3285 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I’ll take a salted caramel hot chocolate to go… 😉

No, but really…wow, girl.  I am so sorry you have to go through this.  I am glad you were able to talk about it and figure out a solution as far as the school stuff goes, but that’s so hard.  You definitely have our support.

It sounds like you are very solid as a couple, so that’s definitely a positive.  I know it will be hard to deal with, especially with the idea of someone taking over ‘your role,’ but, as hard as it is to accept, this might be a good thing for him to have that kind of support. 

What does he do for work?  Is there any way possible he could relocate?

Post # 8
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4567 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

*hugs* I’m so sorry it seems like the world is crashing down on you… we’re in the middle of a huge mess ourselves (not involving long distance thought).  All you can do it keep calm, don’t argue when you’re tired or hungry and carry on. You’ll get through it!

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