Post # 1
pls help me!!!…I love my husband sooo much. but we quarrel almst everyday.
I dunno what to do. Weneva we quarrel, he wldnt talk to me for almost 2 weeks.
I love him and I don’t want to ever lose him. He’s my life.
Though both of us are still very young. But does that mean?.
I’m 21 and he’s 26. And we already have a son.
I’d really appreciate ur replies. Thank u so much.
Post # 3
Have you considered couples counselling? It sounds to me like you might need help with communicating. Good luck!
Post # 4
agree with PP- couples counseling could do wonders for your relationship! Also, try talking about your worries/concerns when you all are not fighting-Just take time to have a heart to heart. It might help you find out more about your partner and vice versa. Good Luck!
Post # 5
What are the issues you are fighting about?! You say every day, but is it all day every day?! Does he threaten he will leave if things do not improve (which, I ask because you said you do not want to lose him?!)
Sorry for the all the questions, but I think we need further insight. Just based upon what you have written, as the other PP’s have stated, the basic advice is that you need some type of counseling to aide in communication, first and foremost!!
Post # 6
If talking to him directly doesn’t work, try couples therapy. If you both love each other and he isn’t emotionally/physically hurting you, keep fighting for it. Do whatver it takes. You promised to spend your lives together for better or worse. This is for worse, but try to make it better. Don’t give up unless you absolutely cannot save it!