(Closed) I’m crazy.

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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11327 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

Aw, you’re not crazy. You’re in love and anxious 🙂 It happens to the best of us heh. Maybe you could get a hobby to take your mind off of it?

Post # 4
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4567 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

*hugs* you are not crazy! I cannot even IMAGINE waiting that long to get married, much less get engaged and we’ve been dating a year on October 22nd.

Post # 5
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10218 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

((HUGS)) it’s not jealousy!! You just want to be engaged to the man of your dreams, there’s nothing wrong with that!! whenever you want to vent come here it makes it a lot easier to vent and get advice from women who know exactly what you’re going through.

Post # 6
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4466 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Just curious, is there a reason you don’t want a long engagement?  Personally, I LOVED having a long engagement.  I got that time to enjoy the bliss of being engaged, and plenty of time to plan. 

Post # 7
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4385 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

don’t worry, you’re not crazy!! i knew FI had the ring and i still went all crazy on him because i wanted it NOW and not in 2 months like he had planned… lol.

long engagements can be good though! ours will be 22 months, and i think it’s going to work out well, and keep stress levels down. you might want to reconsider 🙂

Post # 9
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7054 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

Yea I’d seriously prefer a longer engagement.  It has to do with intent w/me.  I want to know his intent 100 percent. Saying it is one thing, doing it is another.

Don’t sweat it.  It will happen in good time.

Post # 10
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2767 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

just live in the moment and enjoy being bf/gf.  the grass isn’t always greener on the other side.  And in terms of being engaged, it’s been the most stressful year of my life.  Having a ring to show off doesn’t make it all worthwhile.  It will be more worth it when we are married and life returns to normal!

Post # 11
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6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I understand how you feel. I felt the same way, I was super happy with our relationship, but definitey felt like something was out of place before we got engaged. I also thought I didn’t want a long engagement, but was kind of forced into it and really don’t mind it!

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