I'm exhausted

posted 3 years ago in Long Distance Relationships
Post # 2
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2114 posts
Buzzing bee

confusedlittlebee123:  naaaaaahhhh i think you know you need to end it.

why were you dropped out of the vacations if you guys still talk? 

To me, all this sounds like he wants to have you around without the commitment or pressure. He gets to talk to you all the time,. gets your support and comfort etc. But he is still allowed to go do whatever he wants and can hook up with people. He also doesnt have to worry about seeing you as often.

As much as i am sure he is great and treats you like a queen…he has all the benefits of a relationship without the stress – why would he give that up if he doesnt have to?

Post # 3
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307 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

confusedlittlebee123:  end it ive been in one of these my ex was from canada and we had a great relationship while he was here for school then he moved back for three years we talked every day i thought we were in a relationship and he thoughht we were keeping in touch he came to visit often and then one day he started dating someone over there and i was devastated i wasted so much time and i was so invested…these things are very different for men they have the ability to detach and have whole other relationships so if you want to have a chance at love cut him off. I did that and three months later i met my wonderful FI who wanted to be with me and had no other plans. Good luck to you its difficult to cut someone out of your life like that but it can be done i synthat because i also thought my ex was all there was in my life. 

Post # 4
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288 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

What you’ve written does not put this guy in a favorable light. Judging entirely from this post alone, I’ve come to the conclusion that he’s a spineless worm. He’s stringing you along! No person with integrity would behave the way he has. You’re either his ex or you’re not. Clearly in his mind, you must be if he slept with someone else.

It’s over, you’re tired. Don’t waste another minute of your life on this guy. You can’t keep giving and giving until you have nothing left! You have to take care of YOU first.

Run, don’t walk.

Post # 5
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4216 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Ugh. No. Screw that. I’m exhausted just reading about him. 

Post # 6
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382 posts
Helper bee

HappySky7:  Agreed. A relationship shouldn’t be this hard… I think you should move on. I was in a similar situation once and eventually I just got TIRED of it all and so I stopped talking to him and moved on to better prospects. I’m really glad I didn’t waste any more time on him. You should do the same, because this relationship sounds like a dead end.

Post # 8
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1891 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

It sounds like it is over and best to walk away…

Post # 9
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194 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

When you meet your Mr Right this guy will be a mere memory – and you may even laugh about it later on! I had an ‘ex’ that I couldn’t let go of and his continual texts meant that he was still keeping me there just incase but not making any kind of real commitment to me. I finally had enough of the limbo and decided he wouldn’t control me like that anymore (because it really is a form of control). I stopped replying. He kept texting until he finally got the message when he didn’t hear back. I couldn’t even have him in my life as a friend because I knew it would eventually fall back into how it was. I haven’t looked back! I met my now fiancé soon after and realised what a real ‘relationship’ should be! Move on and forget him! Good luck x 

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