I'm getting a weird gut feeling about a guy I'm seeing? Is this God?

posted 3 years ago in Christian
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2004

Maybe you’re just not ready to start a new committed relationship yet – it’s a lot of work!  May e you need some quality time to focus on yourself before you start dating again.  Good luck!

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 1987

It could simply be indigestion or ‘that time of the month’.

I don’t think that God is asking us to be non rational beings.  If you feel uneasy then respond accordingly but heaviness and weirdness probably means you need to make sure that you are eating breakfast.

Post # 5
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Busy bee

I don’t know if the feeling is God. But I think it might be your own subconscious trying to warn you. I think you are just not ready to be in a relationship yet. I think you need some time to heal and be by yourself for awhile. 

When I was younger, I use to get this feeling of uneasiness, much like you’re describing. I eventually learned that those feelings just meant I wasn’t ready for something. 

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

@AussieSummer:  I’m rather bothered that the subject of his (non) virginity has already come up in conversation. Who initiated that conversation? My feeling is things are moving too fast, in terms of talking about things so intimate so soon. Perhaps that is the reason for your uneasiness?

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2012

Whether it’s God, or your gut, or what have you, go with it and follow your instincts.

Obviously we can’t tell you if it’s “God” per se.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

@AussieSummer:  God CAN use circumstances and feelings to speak to us, but he most likely won’t.

The Bible, the Word of God, is how he chose to speak to us daily.

Do you have a devotional time of reading and prayer every day? 

My advice to you is to seek God first. Really. 

When FI and I got together we knew each other for four years, we were amazing friends, we served together in youth group. We never really flirted or “went out” on dates before we started a relationship.

We knew eachother as friends and as brothers in Christ first. We both had a relationship with God and served Him and then it happened.

Don’t push things. And don’t move by feelings 😉

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

@AussieSummer:  I dunno if that’s God, more just like intuition. If you’re not ready then you’re not ready…it’s normal to get gut feelings like that all the time.

Post # 11
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

It’s not God. It’s your gut. We all have it — listen to it. 

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