Post # 1
I’m rarely in moods like this! But today, I’m taking NO prisoners. I’m done, just done! I know I’m overreacting but I can’t help it. Here’s my day:
My Maid/Matron of Honor calls me to complain about 2 people I’ve invited to MY bachelorette party. Um, you don’t like anyone, they don’t like you but this is my party so shut up and deal. She hung up on me when I told her I don’t want her to make drama because she doesn’t like them.
My Mother told me that none of my FI’s family has rsvp’d to my shower. I’m insulted by that. It shows a complete disregard for the event. If its not important to them, don’t come!
My Fiance and I have been fighting for 2 days now. He keeps saying he’s going to do stuff, whether its wedding related (like save the money he needs to save, or get the address for people we’re inviting) or not. Nothing has gotten done. He said he’d replace the fire alarm, NOPE. Take out the garbage? Sure. Didn’t happen. Clean up the mess he calls his side of the room, its only growing. Call the super to fix the kitchen faucet. Bet you can guess this part- he didn’t do it.
My boss if giving me a hard time because we need to create a flyer for an event but the director of graphics doesn’t like her so he won’t work with me on it until next week. He does happen to be one of my best friends but that’s got nothing to do with me, don’t take it out on me!
And, not only did someone eat my lunch, but I forgot my breakfast… grrrrr. Oh, and I’m super duper broke.
I should be in a cave with a wine bottle and a straw…..
Post # 3
Ick…breathe! I’m so sorry you’re having such a horrible day. And to top it off, someone ate your lunch? WTF?? I cannot stand people who do that. What? Did you not notice that you DIDN’T bring that in for lunch today? I am not your personal grocery store…what I brought in was for ME to eat. This has happened to me on more than one occasion, can you tell?? ;o)
I hope things start to look up for you. Can you make a list and post it on the fridge for your Fiance to do? I’m thinking that he’s a forgetful guy (I can’t talk…I often have STM (Short Term Memory) and my hubby makes fun of me for it all the time).
Anyway, I just wanted to say keep your chin up!
Post # 4
Sorry that super sucks. The lunch just tops it off. I agree with the cave and wine until it passes. People are scared of my ‘let me tell you how it is’ moods, so i’ve learned to find a ‘cave’.
Post # 5
Thanks 2peasinapod! I appreciate that.
The lunch this is crap, I always put 4 frozen meals in the fridge on monday so when I saw there were none I was beyond annoyed. Technically 2 were gone, whatev.
I should start putting a list up to ‘remind’ him. But he would just forget to look at the list. It is mostly forgetfulness. But I am having a hard time just forgiving it, it seems to be more and more frequent. And when I bring it up, he minimizes it, or makes it sound as if I’m asking too much of him.
bvig– I’ve only just developed that mood! I think I can be scary if I wanna be!
Post # 6
if i were you: i’d hijack a big ol’ piece of posterboard from the office or buy a cheap one at CVS on my lunch break (since ya know, no lunch any more!) get a fat sharpie and make a big check list. With big boxes to check off, and tape the sharpie on a string on the thing and just put it somewhere so flippin obvious at home. Like right on his pillow, or propped against the fridge. That would at least help with the home stuff that’s making you crazy. As for someone eating your lunch? If you suspect who did it, i would make a big show about how you have trouble taking medicine, and mixed it in your food, but can’t find your lunch! let that one sit for a while.
Sounds very dramatic, but even if I didn’t actually go thru all the stuff above, it’d make me feel better.
Post # 7
Hopefully the day can only go up from here? Also, the visual of drinking wine out of the bottle with a straw really made my day! Hi-larious!
Post # 8
Ack. I’m sorry you’re having such a bad day 🙁
The lunch thing reminds me of that episode of Friends where someone eats Ross’ sandwich. I just don’t understand why people eat food that isn’t theirs, it makes absolutely no sense to me!!!
Post # 9
Ha, yeah my hub and I went through that during wedding planning. He said well I don’t know why you have to get frustrated, you can just ask me. And I’m like well you ignore me when I just ask you, and only see how serious I am about it when I’ve asked you five times and now I’m frustrated. I think it’s just cause typically I’m laid back about things or just do it myself but wedding planning throws a wrench into things, but after a few talks and him realizing that I really was stressed and not just being irritable for a few days he got on board or just told me if he wouldn’t have time.
Post # 10
@melissabegins – what a great idea, lol! I love it!
@Jennifer – I hope that things work out better for you for the rest of the day! I know we all go through those kinds of days and sometimes that cave idea is the best!
Post # 11
Wow, I don’t blame you for being mad, that does not sound like a fun day. Hang in there and I hope it gets better soon!
Post # 12
@melissabegins– that’s hysterical but I’m convinced that would have the opposite effect, he’d revolt. And I know who ate the lunch but its my boss, so I’m at a loss.
@Goldilocks– glad I could help. I guess the image is funny but I really want to have wine! 🙂
@Ottawabride– I don’t remember that episode!
@bvig– yeah, its getting really ridiculous, so I have given up even speaking because I have nothing nice to say.
Oh my gosh, I forgot to mention that my cat peed all over the hallway, where the garbage is. The garbage that my Fiance was supposed to take out. He asked me to put it in the hallway so he wouldn’t forget… guess what, he forgot. Cleaning that was the last thing I wanted to do so early in the morning. My cat is like me, he doesn’t like a mess! Lol
Post # 13
That was me yesterday, Zero patience.
There are few things I HATE more than when people steal someone else’s lunch from the office pantry. You need to post this on the fridge.
P.S. – “I should be in a cave with a wine bottle & a straw ” made me giggle
Post # 14
jennifer- your BOSS ate your lunch? what the hell? I’d still go through with the plan. Technically, isn’t that the person you’re supposed to talk to? “Miz Boss – I’m a little worried… lunch that i packed today is missing. I mixed my steroids (or whatever fabulous thing u can think of) in the applesauce! It’s a pretty severe dose. I’m going to run home and take a pill instead. Bye!” stew on that, boss lady!
i’m so evil today since i have a cold. cough cough!
Post # 15
OMG Dancy – that is awesome. You should totally post that on your fridge jennifer!
I can’t believe it was your boss that ate your lunch! Do you put your names on them? I write in huge letters with a sharpee my name, and “Please don’t eat me!!!” on my frozen meals. That seems to do the trick! Haha. MelissaBegins has a good suggestion too about telling her you put something in your lunches…then do a doctor evil laugh….muhahahaha!
Post # 16
That combination would make anyone into a cave-dwelling, wine drinker! Hope your day improves. Here, let me help: