(Closed) I’m in a predicament! Plz advise (:

posted 7 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
Hostess
18646 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Hmm I think it will be awkward either way.  We invited people last minute saying hey we have some free food, wanna come?

Post # 5
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1482 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Your co-workers will obviously know that they were not on your original invite list; however, if you really want to invite them, you could always deliver the invitation in person and say something like, “I know that it’s last minute, but we ended up being able to expand our guest list and FI and I would be honored if you could attend”.  They’ll either think it’s crappy that they weren’t on your original list or they’ll think it’s awesome that you’re including them, but I don’t think it hurts to ask.

Post # 6
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379 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I dont think there is anything wrong with inviting more people. Yes they will know they are on the B list but you’re not being rude to invite them and if they had a wedding before then they will understand.  You can had deliver their invitation.  They can always decline. 

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