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    MissHelen    November 20, 2010   California

    I'm 20 days out from my wedding, and I find that I'm feeling very odd. It doens't seem real at all. It feels just like the wedding dreams I've had where there are still details that I'm not sure about and things that I want to do but have run out of time. There are no more possibilities...everything is set. It's no longer abstract.
    I'm less excited than I'd like to be, but I'm not stressed either....it's almost zen.

    Please tell me someone else can relate to this!

     
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    mthoma27    June 26, 2010   Eastern Maryland

    I had this same feeling!  Even moments before I walked down the aisle, I was completely calm and it was like it wasn't even happening.  Truthfully, I was excited, but it didn't look like it!  This is great for you!  Less stress, more sleep, happy thoughts, enjoy the next few weeks and live day to day.  Congrats :-)

     
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    Shoppingdixie    September 17, 2010   New York

    yeah, even on the day before our wedding day my FI (Now DH) and I was still saying how it doesn't really feel like we were getting married.  we're just throwing a party!  I'm not sure if that feeling ever hit me the day of either but I remember almost crying for a moment as I walked down the asile.

     
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    MissHelen    November 20, 2010   California

    Seriously. It's really odd how everything just starts....meshing. And then suddenly here it is.

     
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    kfricke89    July 10, 2011   Dallas/ Ft Worth TX

    I know that will happen to me. I have heard the nerves pick back up the week or days before... THAT is when I know I wont be able to sleep without help!

     

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