(Closed) I’m invited to her shower but she’s not invited to mine – do I tell the truth???

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
Member
2867 posts
Sugar bee

Just RSVP no and tell her that yours was planned for the same day as hers and you got her invite before you could send yours!  I’d send a card as well.

Post # 4
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1403 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

If you’re invited to a shower, you can be sure you’re invited to the wedding too.  Most people would consider it poor ettiquette to invite someone to a shower and not the wedding.

You don’t have to quickly send her an invitation to your own shower.  If she asks, just say you didn’t bother sending her an invitation to yours after you found out hers is on the same day anyway.

She sounds like a really sweet person, so I’m sure she won’t have any hard feelings, whatever happens.  🙂

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