Post # 1
So my wedding is next Saturday and I wanted to have a very small bridal party. It’s my hubby, his brother(best man) my son ( walking me down) my daughter(flower gril) and Then there’s April ( my maid or honor). I opt not for a big party because i did not want any issues. But now!!!!! I CAN’T FIND April… I have called, sent texts, even sending her a facebook message, and still No answer. Now I feel like if you did’nt want to do this she should have said something a week or two ago. My mom made her dress and all. I wish I would have asked my other friend that lives in Tx. I thought that since she lived out of state it might be a problem. However, I chose April because I’ve known her since 1988. Wow be careful of whom you ask to be an important part of your BIG DAY !!!!
Post # 3
Yikes…is it possible something could have happened to her? Is there anyone else you can contact to see if she’s okay?
Post # 4
Does she live closeby? Can you just stop over to her house? Were there any other signs that she wasn’t interested in participating? If not, I’d be more worried that something happened to her, rather than being pissed.
Post # 5
Is it normal for her to go MIA? If not, I’d go by her house, contact her other friend, hell… contact her parents and make sure she is ok!
Post # 6
@Bride 2011: has she been updating her facebook? Is she’s gone missing from all of that, maybe something is actually wrong and has nothing to do with your wedding.
Post # 7
@Bride 2011: If this is out of character for your friend to be MIA, I’d be worried. Go to her house. Can you check on Facebook and see if she is at least active answering other people on their wall/her wall?
Post # 8
Eeek. I hope she’s okay! I’m sorry that your MOH is MIA, but since you have a small wedding party i assume you’ve been doing most of the work yourself so no loss there. I think you should check with common friends to see if something is wrong and see if anybody else has actually seen her.
Good luck with you wedding!
Post # 9
oh no! has she given you any indication that she wasn’t interested in going before? I agree with Ryansgirl, I would see if any of her other friends might have heard from her.
Post # 10
Thats not good at all….Sorry to hear that for you
Post # 11
@KatNYC2011: for real! i would be worried about her well being first and foremost – this is a crazy world we live in.
I would check up on her before getting upset – you just never know…
Post # 12
Thanks guys for the feed back. I spoke with my mom this evening and she said that she had texted her about the dress and April told her to leave it with her mother. So she’s ok…… I facebooked a friend of ours and I kinda mentioned that “someone was MIA and has’nt called back” And she knew who I was speaking about. At this moment I’m actually living in Warner Robins and she lives in Atlanta. So this weekend I’m going home to see what’s up!