Post # 1
I actually think planning a wedding together brings us closer together, Anyone else feel the same???
Today we had our save the dates pictures done and yesterday went shopping for a mere 250 Christmas cards to put them in. My FI hatttteeess shopping, but has been so great with helping with any wedding task and putting an input in. Not to mention his patience when doing such tidious tasks, putting on a smile and making it fun.Even though I know it’s his least favourite thing.We’ve been planning special nights together more often and it feels kind of like when we first started dating all over again. I think its pretty amazing you can fall in love with the same person over and over again. I feel really lucky and in a great place and wanted to share 🙂
Post # 3
@blushingbride1013: I feel the same way! He’s so excited in his own guyish way. Our bands came in this week, and ever night he “practices being married” and wears it around the house. Today, we finally did the apartment up with Christmas lights and decorations, and he blurts out, “Hey we can make our Christmas cards a kind of STD just to remind people!” It melts me everytime he says or does something like that.
Post # 4
Last month I had a big, big fight with FI about him being so lazy and procrastinating certain tasks that messed up my timeline/massive to-do list.
He’s more supportive now. And I’m sooo glad because I never knew he’d be such a big help and be full of so many creative ideas! I’d been agonizing over STDs and invites for MONTHS but in 10 minutes he told me what he thought, and BAM! Everything’s decided on, and we’re ready to order and DIY them. He’s also so amazing at decor and color coordinating, I’m putting him in charge of centerpieces and all other decor.
I think it’s funny that we’ve switched the roles that I originally planned for us. I thought he’d take care of money and budgeting, and I’d do all the creative planning and DIYing. Now, I’m doing canvassing for prices and booking vendors, and he’s always on my computer, muttering about shades of pink and cream vs. champagne lol.