Post # 1
FI is a HUGE procrastinator… huge!!!! His one big job for our wedding was to arrange for a civil marriage before we leave for our DW in Jamaica. We’re getting married here because it’s easier paperwork wise to do it that way, but we’re not really telling anyone that we’ll already be married. Anyhow, I’ve printed off the information, sent him the links to our city clerks office, and provided him with all the information to actually book/arrange for our marriage license and civil marriage. Finally, today, I just took him with me on my lunch to the clerks office to get the marriage cert, and sure enough, there are no appts available at all before we leave for Jamaica to get legally married at city hall!!!!
We totally lucked out, and the clerk who was helping us is ordained, and will be able to marry us next week, but I’m just annoyed that he couldn’t get his act together and handle this!!!
Ugh!! Boys are silly!!! And procrastinating stinks!!!
Post # 3
so…. you’re marrying a guy…. lol
Seriously though, that’s annoying! But pretty typical in my experience. 🙂
Post # 4
It’s not just yours. I’m pretty sure they all come like that 😉
Post # 6
Maybe it’s something that comes from birth…. @mwitter80 is right, they all come like that!
I could just strangle him Homer Simpson style for this one!
Post # 8
Ugh, my fiance is the same way. He doesn’t understand why I am planning for our wedding now (our wedding is in June 2011). If it were up to him we would be planning everything in the month before.
Post # 9
DH ordered custom made suits from Hong Kong in July. Our wedding was September. Count in custom tailoring, shipping, and then any alterations that may have been needed once they arrived…. I could have killed him!!! They showed up literally 10 days before our wedding. I was freaking out! That being said, I knew that worst case scenario it’s pretty easy for guys to get suit rentals, so I had a secret back up plan. I also knew my DH was a huge procastinator and that’s why he wasn’t in charge of anything else wedding related, he was my “helper”, LOL!
Post # 10
i told my husband in January to think of gifts for his groomsmens. Our Wedding was in September. 2 weeks before the wedding he still have not come up with any gifts yet. he ended up giving them all cash. I was so annoyed since I asked him to do this 9 months before.