Post # 1
Hi, I’m Jillian, and i’m very much in waiting. Trying to be there patiently, but it’s hard. My boyfriend, Jason, and I have only been together 6 months, but have been best friends since we met about a year ago. We have talked about marriage, and definately want to go in that direction (thats a step!) but in all reality, he got divorced last year (she cheated) and I’m recently out of a previous engagement (he cheated , but it worked out for the best! ) so I’ll be in waiting for at least six more months before he’s ready to pop the question. However, we’ve lived together since we started dating (a little backwards, I know, but it works somehow lol) and we have one beautiful furbaby togther, a deaf Australian Shepherd/Blue Heeler mix named Blue, and I have acquired two step furbaby-kittys Stoli and Tuaca
Blue and Tuaca 🙂
And Stoli 🙂
Oh and here’s Jason and I on NYE:
So, Hi Ya’ll!! And have any good tips to help me wait patiently??
Post # 3
Welcome to the hive.. I am very new on here as well as fel your pain on the “trying patiently” thing.. Its not an easy task
Post # 4
HIII I love your ya’ll so cute ha I’m from the NY area so it’s cool to hear or read that lol
Post # 5
Welcome – YAY – we love when new gals join the waiting line Love the pix of your family You all are adorable!
Post # 6
welcome to the hive…I hope that your wait is not long 🙂
Post # 7
- Wedding: September 2010 - Heron Hill Winery
Welcome!!! I hope your wait isn’t going to be too long…if it makes you feel better I had a friend who was engaged at 10 mos…for me it took 3.5 years of a wait….but every couple is different
Post # 8
@Chipmunk: The funny part about the Ya’ll is I’m originally from Connecticut! But after being in Texas for almost 2 years it’s one of the few things i’ve picked up!
@jacki-o: thank you! We are very happy, and the waiting is hard because I do love him, and I love our relationship, I’d just like to move forward a little sooner than him! haha
@msmonicka: thanks, I hope not too, but considering how he reacted last night (it was pretty cute actually) to me having the david’s bridal “dress your wedding party” website up last night (I was playing on it while he was working) he pretty much said “whhhyyyy is that up?” followed by “I just don’t want you to expect something soon, we have a time table!”, we kind of rushed our relationship in the beginning and we both have some baggage from our previous relationships, so he doesn’t want to rush into a marriage, which I agree with and respect… So he wants to wait a year before we start seriously talking marriage (the time table he was talking about), but we’ve talked about what rings I like etc. So he’s sending mixed signals sometimes… uugh, waiting is hard! lol
Post # 9
Welcome to the hive! Waiting is defnitely hard but I have a feeling it’ll be worth it (just read some of the stories of our newly-engaged bees and their previous posts)! Weddingbee will really help you out with your patience, I promise, it’s a great place to vent, just talk in general, and get ideas, etc!
Post # 10
Welcome!! This is usually where i talk wedding stuff so that i dont bother the boy too much! haha. everyone is really friendly!
Post # 11
Welcome! Enjoy your time here and I hope it’s short! 🙂
Post # 12
Welcome! Y’all (and your pets) are too freaking cute for words! So glad you’re here!
Post # 13
waiting is so hard! Realistically, I’ve only been waiting for about 6 months, but I feel like I’ve been waiting since I graduated college 3 years ago. I don’t have any good advice — I have really, really good days and really, really bad days — but I think it’s important to focus on what you DO have and how wonderful it is NOW. It’s only going to get better!
It’s so hard not to rush, but good for you two for being thoughtful about your past and taking some time. Good luck waiting!
Post # 14
Hi Jillian! Welcome to WB! I LOVE YOUR PETS!! adorable! I also really like the fact that you named ur cats after liquor lol..Im a bartender so when I got my kitten 2 years ago I wanted to name him all sorts of liquor names but I settled on Roxas 🙂
I myself have been with my BF for almost 5 years (April 20..lol yes…4/20! haha)..and have been a lady in waiting for about a year now. WB has helped me SO MUCH! I love it here with the other waiting bees <3
Post # 15
your furry babies are soooo freakin’ cute! welcome aboard!!