- 4 years ago
Frustrated need kind advice please Hello. . I was just wondering if anyone can offer me some kind hearted advice as I know what I’m about to say could cause some harsh responses. Firstly I would like to say I have the most amazing other half and I love him so so much. And that’s why I want to marry him. He however professes that he wants to marry me but that seems to be as far as it goes there is no actual doing anything about it. Actions speak louder than words right? On a recent holiday he told everyone he was going to propose but didn’t so when we came back everyone was asking to see ring but I had no idea. When anything weddingy comes on tv he makes comments about our wedding etc….. Heard a new song a few months ago and told me the words were nice we might have it as our first dance. Says we need to be saving to pay for a wedding. His latest thing is he has a new job (I’m thrilled for him he seems so much happier in this one) and on his first day there he came home and said he thinks things are really looking up for us and now he has this new job we are going to get married next year. BUT that’s great and I would love to be married to him but next year is quite general and I would like an actual date and to start looking to make plans but he doesn’t he just says we need to save first. I feel like a lot of what he says is to string me along and that he maybe likes the idea of it all but not the reality. I know people will probably say be patient and just wait but it’s really hard when he keeps bringing it up and saying things.