I'm not that type of fiance, so why does this bug me?!

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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1318 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Has anything happened that makes you feel this way? What is dfferent about this girl compared to the others? Are you jealous of her in general or only when she talks to your man?

 

Post # 4
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2571 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

Has there been anything between them in the past?  Or is it all kosher?

There’s a girl FI and I are aquainted with.  I used to talk to her a lot more but I admit part of me became “that girl” when FI and I got together.. I barely talk to her now and if FI or her like each other’s statuses or photos (even when it’s one he’s put up about me and him!) I get all stabby.  I’m working on it, as he has told me nothing ever went on between them and she’s got a boyfriend etc.  I am working on this.

 

Post # 7
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

Is she super flirty? Some people just have flirty personalities and it really doesn’t even have anything to do with being interested in the person they’re talking to. They’re just flirts in general.

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

@mrscross1020:  Ahhh, are you sure we’re not talking about the same girl? Haha…

FI and I have gotten into numerous (too embarrassing to mention) fights over this person and FB.  Just last week I saw she changed her profile pic to one of her in team colors of a team both Fi and her like (they are from the same area but she lives far away from us) and I rolled my eyes.  Yet, she liked all my bridal shower pictues and I still felt like I wanted to throw things when I saw she did that. Guh…

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@mrscross1020:  I know this feeling very well!!!  There’s one person it drives me nuts when DH talks to!!!

Post # 13
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11772 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2013

@mrscross1020:  I know EXACTLY how you feel.

There was this one girl I’d never seen before at DH’s high school reunion last month. I instantly disliked her, but didn’t know why.

Towards the end of the night, DH and his high school BFF went to do shots by the bar, so since I’m pregnant and the friend’s wife is pregnant, we hung out and chit-chatted.

Suddenly, the girl I disliked from earlier wandered up and started talking to our husbands! I was like “God, I’m such a psycho. I don’t know why, but I don’t like her.”

And the friend’s wife replied with “Oh thank GOD. I thought it was just me!”

So never, ever doubt an internal dislike of someone!

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

It happens to all of us, I think. DH has multiple female friends from college and work, and 99% of the time, I don’t care. Every once in awhile, though, a girl he becomes friends with will just seem “off” to me and it bugs me. I don’t know what it is about certain girls, but something about they way they act around my DH drives me insane. Totally irrational, since DH is very trustworthy, and it’s not a gender-wide thing – I’m fine with opposite gender friends in general.

 

 

 

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@mrscross1020:  I know the feeling!  It’s like if you tell someone in real life, in their minds, you are FOREVER “that girl”.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

This is the opposite of my situation! I am the outgoing and talkative one, and my FI hates when I talk to certain people. He says there’s just “something” about some of them he doesn’t like…Idk. *shrugs*

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