Post # 1
Just shy of 7 years together we had a serious discussion and he was truthful with me and told me that he doesn’t see marriage in our future. He said that’s not the life he wants. When I asked why he stayed in this relationship so long if that’s how he felt he told me that he loves and cares about me, but whenever we talk about marriage he just knows that he doesn’t see us getting married. He said he doesn’t want to break up, but he thinks I am just going to be miserable and he feels like I’m going to end up resenting him. The thing is when we were in that happy lovey-dovey getting to know you phase and we talked about everything we discussed marriage in general and he told me then that he wanted to get married someday, so the way I see it is that he just doesn’t want to marry ME and I think he just got comfortable in our relationship and is having a hard time letting go completely. So I did it for him and I asked him to move out. I just think it’s stupid to go any further now that I know how he truly feels. I’m so sad, but I truly hope that everything works out for all of you waiting bees.
Post # 3
Wow, I am so sorry you had to deal with this! I can’t believe he dragged it out for so long. You absolutely made the right decision to ask him to move out. I sincerely hope you find the happiness you deserve.
ETA: I’ll take you off the list per your request.
Post # 4
Oh hun, I’m so sorry! But I agree that you made the right decision. *virtual hugs*
Post # 5
- Wedding: July 2017 - Bristol zoo
I am so so sorry that it came to this. You are a wonderful woman and deserve so much better than to be dragged along like that. All the best to you sweety x
Post # 6
Thanks everyone. I think somewhere inside I knew because he was full of excuses and we have been slowly growing apart but I just didn’t want to face it, so I guess it’s partially my fault too. Better to finally know though, so I can begin moving on.
Post # 7
@Riley328: *hugs* I am sorry things played out this way. But I believe that everything happens for a reason and that perhaps you would not meet your future husband if things didn’t play out like they did. I always tell my fiancé that after I met him, I understood why it didn’t and couldn’t work with any of my ex’s, and I was beyond heartbroken (more like soul shattered) when my ex and I broke up. There is someone who wants to marry you and when you meet him, everything will make sense. Hope you feel better soon and get some closure and be happy soon.
Post # 8
@Riley328: I am sorry to hear that! All the best for this next chapter in your life!
Post # 9
@Riley328: oh im so sorry ): *hugs x and yes, youre right, youve got closure to move on now . Best wishes
Post # 10
@Riley328: How very sad for you. For you both. It sounds like you did the right thing for you. It is a shame he dragged it on for so long. I hope you find closure and can move on. You deserve someone who is BEGGING to marry you, and I am sure you will one day. Stay strong. You did the right thing. x
Post # 11
I’m sorry you’re going through this. You deserve to be with someone who wants the same thing you do. Best of luck!
Post # 12
You have made a brave, strong and decisive decision.
I bet in the future you will look back on this and be so proud. The hardest things to do often come with the biggest rewards.
Post # 13
I am so sorry you are going through this! You need a man where you are his worl. And you will find one, I am positive! X
Post # 14
I am very sorry for you. HUGS! but on a brighter note, the door just opened for the right person to walk into your life. Believe that:)
Post # 15
I am so sorry you are going through this, but I am happy you stood up for what is important for you in life. I’m new, so I went back and read your posts, I can’t believe how selfish he has been! You asked him for the truth like 9 months ago and he lied! You deserve so much better… Good luck in everything, I hope you have plenty of time to rediscover the things you truly enjoy in life!
Post # 16
@Riley328: Oh sweetie! I’m so sorry that you have to deal with this. -hugs-