Post # 1
Hi everyone! I’m new to this…. I decided I needed to join so I have people to vent to and to listen to people vent about the same Topic so I don’t feel so crazy. My boyfriend and I have been together about five years on and off, two solid years now and we have been together about 3 1/2 years total. We’ve looked at rings, I’ve picked one out, now i’m WAITING. And i’m going CRAZY. I am becoming one of those girls I used to laugh at. The wedding obsessed, hint dropping, impatient, CRAZY girls. I know it shouldn’t be a money issue because I know how much he spends on his truck(s), fourwheelers, trailers and other stupid stuff. He was the one who brought up looking at rings in the first place! And he brings up wedding stuff! ( I kindly remind him that I am not planning a wedding till I have a ring). Anytime I hear of someone else getting engaged I get so mad, especially if they haven’t been together half as long as us! When is it going to be my turn!?!
Post # 3
@afterthetrucks: Welcome welcome! Your name says it all. :/
You are in the right place, its just hard to wait. WHEN IS IT MY TURN, happens A LOT. But there’s no judgment or snarkiness here so your impatience is understood and shared. 🙂
Post # 4
Welcome! You’re feelings are totally normal. I love this site. Helps get everything off my chest. Vent away!
Post # 5
Many, many ladies here are having or have had the exact same feelings, jealousy, and frustrations. Let it all out.
Post # 6
These are all good signs! Welcome!
Post # 7
Lots of the ladies will understand *myself included* Vent away, have a chat…
When it is your turn and we’ll all be proper excited for you, until then, watch girly films, paint your nails, eat chocolate, take bubble baths. Do anything that makes you happier while you wait.
Post # 9
You are definately not alone here! I’m glad I found this site to let me know I’m not alone & not crazy.
Post # 10
Whew! I’m glad you guys understand!
Oh and I have a 15m old son who is not the bfs. He came from a stupid relationship during one of our “off” times ( don’t judge me I was young and stupid ). It makes me nervous having the bf be such a big part of his life if he’s not a 110% permanant member of the family. UGH.
@Miss T-Rex Ha I know. Thats because that’s how it ALWAYS is. We can buy a house AFTER his truck is paid off, I can get a ring AFTER he replaces the clutch thingy in his car, we can go on vacation AFTER his fourwheelers done. Story of my life ha. He’s said he’ll sell his truck so we can get a house faster but then I konw he’ll resent me for losing his truck and we’ll just have to buy another more expensive truck anyways.