Post # 1
i apologize if i will sound rude and sometimes non appropriate but i need to vent this out!!!!
how come that IT IS MY FREAGGIN WEDDING and everyone needs to get in shape!!!!!!!!!! WTF!!!!! for real!!!!
well i l am not overweight and im not really skinny either..im a size 10 with curves…anyways, in the past year i gained aboaut 10 pounds that i like to call happy fat! whatever.. im trying to lose these pounds but it is not really working out that well..well i have always eaten healthy, BUT i have an awful sweet tooth! after every meal i need something sweet! UGH! but for the past month i cut off on sweet…mostly.. adn i started exercising 3-4 times a week..so hopefully i will be able to look a little more decent on my wedding day… yeah i cut on portions and stuff, cut the sweets out but sometimes i really need to cheat (thats why my diet is not working out that well)… what annoyies me the most is that everyone is dieting and getting in shape for my wedding! why????? WHY?????? WWWWWHHHHHHHHHHHHYYYYYYYYYYYYYY???????????????????????????????/
im not freacking Madonna, or the queen of England and im not having celebrities or tvs on my wedding date!!! so why they want to diet?? and clearly all these people dont need to diet because theay are all already skinny!!! so why?? god explain me this?? there is nothing more annoying when people say”im fat” when clearly their not! UUUUUUGHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
i know i should be happy that everyone wants to look good on my wed day, but it really annoyies me because clearly i wont lose those pounds and im not seeing results, and then am i the on who is supposed to be in the center of the attention????
sorry for my really SOUR MOOD, it could be that time of the month too..im just really stressed and tired and i cant wait for all this planning to be over…
i though it was supposed to fun and everything, but there is always someone who drags you down..
oh well… i vented it out..so i should be ok…
thanks for reading this stupid post and sorry!
Post # 3
awww i understand your frustration, it’s YOUR day and YOU want to BE FABULOUS!!!
my bm’s have started tanning and working out and growing out there hair and i’m not even getting married until september!!
honestly, just take it with a grain of salt and as flattery that they want to look good for you on your day! you’ll still be the star and be the most beautiful on YOUR DAY!
Post # 4
I know how you feel! My mom hired a personal trainer, my Future Mother-In-Law joined a gym, and one of my bridesmaids joined a gym too, because they all want to get in shape. While I sit here and eat ice cream, haha.
Post # 5
brooklyn~~~ thats sooo me~ ahaha i thought that with the wedding only 2 months away i would get motivated in doing somehing, BUT NOTHING!!!NADA DE NADA!!!! ZERO!!!!
Post # 6
I’m sorry you’re pissed that they want to look good for your big day but I think you need to look at it as moral support. My mom and two aunts have joined a gym with me so that I have some to workout with and try to stay motivated.
Post # 7
Aww, I feel your pain… I have a terrible sweet tooth too. Gets me every time! I have started either chewing gum or drinking water with the crystal light packet to try to curb that a little.
I would just consider it flattering that people in your life think that you and your wedding are so important that they want to look their best at it. 🙂
I totally understand being frustrated at wanting to lose weight but not seeing results, it can be really hard. How long have you been at the “working out 3-4 days a week, cutting portions and sweets” thing? I would def keep at it- you might not see results right away but you WILL get there, it just takes a little time to “trick” your body into losing some of its weight.
Post # 8
Vintage~ im not that pissed it was just a moment… i am ok with them looking good but i just cant stand they way they tell me about it…i dont know how to explain it…i dont know..it is just frustrating that im trying so hard and i dont see results and then i hear people tell me that they are ona diet and excercising when they clearly dont need that! they are all 5. 4″ and 115 lbs! come on now!
Post # 9
You aren’t Madonna? Well sheesh that’s the only reason I read the thread, I thought you were Madonna
In all seriousness I totally understand how you feel but I also understand others wanting to look good since they will be participating in your wedding. My sister is Maid/Matron of Honor and started working out just a bit more since she also has to walk down the aisle with people staring at her. She’s not trying to look better than me or steal my thunder she just wants to look her best for pictures and herself and I totally couldn’t be happier for her is she loses the weight she wants.
Post # 10
miss root~~ thanks!
i have dieting on and off all my life and exercising a lot that i feel my body is soo used to that, that whatever i do now it wont work… i competely stopped exercising a year ago because i didnt have money for the gym anymore (im soo broke) and lately i have been running outside or on the trademil fromthe 80s’ taht my FI’s mom gave me since she doesnt use it anymore,…so i do what i can do… but it is so frustrating!
Post # 11
I had to go on a low carb crash diet for two weeks before my sister’s wedding cause I was ready to bust out of the dress. It worked 🙂
Post # 12
Sweet tooth here. Maybe the other gals are trying to get in shape because they’re in the wedding party and will be in pics? Or maybe they’re some single friends who think they’ll meet a guy there or something. Maybe you can enlist their aid to help keep you on track. Have dinner dates with them. Make sure you all eat healthy meals. Go walking/jogging/work out to buns of steel, with them.
And above all else, post pics of those skinny *** girls in your kitchen. You know, when you’re looking for some ice cream. 😉 Although you might have some explaining to do if they see their faces on your cookie jar or something.
Post # 13
Damn the sweet tooth. It is my downfall also.
Post # 14
I think they are probably just jealous you are getting married and want to try to get attention any way they can. I have friends like this.
I would not completely cut things you love out of your diet. If you do, you just want them more and will binge later on them.
This is what works…
Cut down on the carbs and sugar. Replace pop with water, Do fun workouts like ZUMBA or something else that does not really feel like a workout. Eat tons of fruits & veggies and yogurt. minimize red meat & fried foods. The most important thing is moderation. I love pop but if I added all those calories I would blow up. So i make myslef drink water at work and during the week. if i go out to dinner on the weekend and I am craving a coke, I go for it. For me, I think eating very healthy during the week and letting yourself cheat on the weekends works. You don;t feel as deprived and it is all about moderation.
hope this helps!
Post # 15
Oh I know how you feel! Like for instance my Fiance will cut sugar out for 1 week and lose 15 freakin pounds! Its sooooo frusterating!
Post # 16
My parents are trying to get in shape for my wedding. I think that it is good because my daddy and both of my FH’s parents are diabetic so this may motivate them.