Im really hating on his family right now.

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
944 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@bridgette soon to be mrs fitz:  sorry bee, this sounds awful. And he seems like such a peice of work. It’s really your husbands final decision, but perhaps he should put into writing everything he feels, send it, and cut him off.

Some people are just not worth it, and it seems this man has caused enough pain in his life.

Post # 4
Member
573 posts
Busy bee

@bridgette soon to be mrs fitz:  VENT away!  I’m sorry you have to deal with these people.  I would just ignore them and continue to demonstrate to your husband how you do love and respect him unlike these relatives. Hugs.

Post # 5
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2299 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@bridgette soon to be mrs fitz:  They do sound toxic. Vent away, and I hope that your DH is hanging in there. I can’t imagine how tough it must be to be handed accusations like that by your “family”.

Post # 6
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2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

His dad sounds like a shitty guy….all the more reason why your husband shouldn’t be asking him for favours, or accepting anything where he might “owe” him later.

I do think it’s kind of hypocritical to complain about him, and how toxic he is, but then basically ask him for money (which co-signing on a loan is). It’s probably for the best he said no. If he co-signed you might be forced to have him in your life until the loan is paid off.

Post # 8
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1318 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

Sorry you and your FI are going through this Bee. It sounds like his father is really toxic and your FI is probably better off keeping him at a distance. If at all possible, I would stop as much contact as I can with them and let your FI deal with it. 

Post # 9
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3097 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2013 - A court...

That really sucks 🙁 my dh also has a toxic dad and he’s finally cut off all ties with him. I know it was hard on him since that’s his dad and no matter what he just wanted his approval. Sigh, I don’t understand how one could act like that, but I wish you and your so luck in whatever you choose to do.

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