(Closed) I’m starting to think FI actually wants to see me totally lose my mind…

posted 7 years ago in Photos/Videos
Post # 3
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575 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

AUUUGHHH!  Why do they do this?  I can’t believe it! Is it too late to get them done at the school?? I feel like all my FI does is say no to whatever I come up with because the wedding is my hometown instead of his (which he agreed to in the first place and we live abroad – nevermind long story).  Then, I’m like, what do you want to do – does he have any ideas?  NO!  Why don’t they just say yes like they love the idea?? haha

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

My FI is like that sometimes ( just likes to be a pain in the a** just cause he can). I understand why you would want to go to your alma mater, but I honestly don’t think it is important. When we got our e-pics we did some in the studio and some outside at a park that we had never been together. But the pics came out great, part of the photographers job is to be creative. I think you shouldn’t stress out about where exactly the photos are taken. Maybe try and find some pics for the time you spent together and make a collage of pics of the two of you to display at the wedding. Or make a slide show to play.

Post # 5
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

I think you have to talk to men as if they are always making a final decision. I preface every decision we make with, “We can not change our minds after this. It is very important to think before you answer. This is the last time we can make a decision.” Then after he answers I say “Final Answer?” Just to solidify there is no changing our minds.  It is ridiculous, but it has managed to stop some of my frustrations with him regarding this topic.

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