(Closed) I'm such a pushover

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1671 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

@MiraJo:  I’m the same. I have such a problem talking to strangers, being in unknown situations. It gives me tons of anxiety!

Post # 4
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1473 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@MiraJo:  I wish I were a little more like you, haha! I’m sometimes TOO assertive and TOO opinionated and I just can’t seem to shut my mouth. I feel like I sometimes come off as rude and I don’t mean to be. I think either way, we always wish we were more something. But in all honesty, if you want your dress to be a little but shorter, DO NOT be afraid to tell the seamstress that. It’s her job to make things to fit you and what you would like. On your next fitting, bring the shoes you are wearing in so then you won’t even have to say anything! She will automatically just assume you will want the hem high enough to see your shoes! Good luck!

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I get this way too, I have bad anxiety and some depression… you wouldn’t believe the haircuts I’ve let stylists get away with because I was too shy to say anything, or the things I’ve bought or agreed to because someone was kind and I didn’t want to bother them, the meals I’ve eaten that weren’t what I ordered but I couldn’t bring myself to speak up.

I’m getting a little better these days but it totally still happens. When FH and I go shopping, and I ask for something off a high shelf or from behind a counter or something, sometimes FH will remind me “you don’t have to buy something just because you looked at it/took a few minutes of their time.”

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