(Closed) "I'm the worst cheater ever"

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
604 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2014 - Narrawallee reserve/beach & Mollymook golf club

He doesn’t even realie that girls are flirting with him so I not so subtly send them “back of he’s mine” signals. I just remind them that I’m engaged and love my fiance and nothing is going to change that.

Post # 4
1578 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2013 - Country Club

Fi doesn’t get it when girls are flirting with him. He just doesn’t notice it. Fine by me! 😀

Post # 6
1716 posts
Bumble bee

He’ll flirt back, but make it obvious that I’m his woman. Neither of us see any harm in flirting if no one is being lead on. Hell we’ve been known to go on “dates” with other people.

Like say a mutual girlfriend is feeling lonely or “not pretty”. We’ll take her out and fawn over her and flirt shamelessly. She knows it’s all in fun. We know it’s all in fun and it makes her feel better. So why not?


Post # 7
1856 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

My SO is a naturally very flirty person – with everyone. He’s just very friendly and jokey and easy to talk to, so people often interpret his behaviour. I know how he is so it never bugs me at all. He’s so straightforward about having a family though that I don’t think people who see him regularly would ever actually think he was flirting with them. I’ve seen women flirt with him and he’ll be friendly, but never in a leading them on way.

Post # 8
1583 posts
Bumble bee

My boo only has eyes for me apparently. Even when I point it out or they touch his hair (which I agree is fantastic) he gets confused. When we met all of his friends wives were like we tried to hook him up before and he was oblivious, how’d you get him to pay attention to you.

I am glad flirting goes over his head cuz I can get jealous pants which usually results in me putting on my annoyed hat to match.

Post # 9
6360 posts
Bee Keeper

He’s usually oblivious and I have no problem stepping up cooly to put an early stop to it. He doesn’t tend to notice that I’ve done this either… subtle female signals are lost on this guy, lol! Afterward, when I explain to him what happened, he usually finds what the girl did as rude but funny.

If it’s really obvious, he’ll quickly dismiss her himself, but he has considerably less tact than me. Which isn’t to say I’m friendly about it. Some girls think they can bully their way in, so the message has to be very clear immediately.

Post # 10
817 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

My SO gets hit on all the time. I think he’s attractive, but also friendly and approachable. I have stood back and watched women in action before. It cracks me up. He sometimes doesn’t even realize what’s going on until I tell him. He always turns 4 shades of red. He then reminds me I am his one and only.

Post # 11
2132 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Erm. I’m the oblivious one haha. I don’t really notice when girls flirt with him in person (maybe they don’t when I’m around since I’m right there?) But if girls start texting/FBing him flirty things he completely ignores them and doesn’t respond.

I also don’t really notice when guys flirt with me, but he certainly does, and quickly steps up to put his arm around me or something else subtle yet obvious. If the guy is obvious about it, I’ll notice and quickly make it clear I am not single/interested. Some guys don’t care, and if it gets to that point I just walk away silently.

Post # 12
3126 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2017

@kittyface:  Darling Husband is like this too. I say he is a natural born salesman and he makes girls from about ages 10-80 stammer and blush. Once, years ago when he was helping me out at a previous job, I had a customer ask me if he was available to take her high school daughter to prom… cue awkward silence.

It used to bother me but it doesn’t any more. I know he thinks about me throughout the day because he calls and texts me when he can, and he is eager to come home to me every night.

Post # 13
753 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Mine either doesn’t even realize they’re flirting, or is just cold to them/ignores them, lol. 

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